Why is it that you tell ppl stuff at all?!?!?

Question

My friend and I work together at a new job. I'm not as good as her so I ask her to switch schedules with me cause my time is busier. She said yes and I ask her not to tell anyone why we switch since I didn't want anyone to know I felt a bit overwhelmed. She messages me that she told our co-worker-turned supervisor who will tell our other co-workers! Possibly, this will get to our manager who will definitely bring it up to me! I asked her not to say anything and the first day we switch she does. What part of I trust you not to say anything do people not understand?!?!

Answer 1

Maybe your friend misunderstood just how strongly you felt about her keeping her mouth shut! When talking to friends about secrets, it is important to express how much it means to you that they keep their mouth shut! But even then some people are just gossipers and the best way to tell  if they talk too much is if they constantly gossip to you about everyone else! JOURNALS go a very long way my dear

Answer 2

Sorry girl. I guess like the old saying goes the only one you can truly ever trust 100% are yourselves.