Why is it when a young lady is pregnant the church people want her to have it but she gets no help after?

Question

The lady ends up on welfare and she struggles in life. No more education. Living in the projects. Living in crime. (Like Detroit) Buying second hand clothes. Not a bright future.

Answer 1

She should find a better church. The churches I have went to always try to help single mothers, but she also has to try to help herself.

Answer 2

Why do you feel like anyone should help her? Ultimately its her choice, if she decides to keep her child she had to take care of him/her. She should of thought of this before having s*x.

Answer 3

Usually when a church pushes a woman that is single to have a child (since most are still against abortion) they will also be willing to assist in an adoption too.  At least that is how the churches around here are.  I know a few teens that got pregnant and the churches they attended would push to try to get them to adopt the baby out through an adoption program through the church.