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Why is it whenever I think I can't do something, I don't?

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I was thinking back to every time I said "This is too hard I can't do this" and then every time I end up not being able to complete it.

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  1. I doubt its because you really cant do it. You only end up not being able to do it because psychologically, you already told yourself that you cant. Hence, there isnt much effort either.

    Its like the saying ''Do you fail to plan or plan to fail?'' :)

    Try twisting it around, tell yourself you can do it, Believe it or not, chances are you will succeed. The mind can be one of the most amazing ''inventions''. It can also be the most destructive. You need to take control of your emotions & build up on your confidence.

    You wont know till you try :)


  2. I'm not sure this is psychology.. this is self evident.

    When you go out to do something you have an expectation. Whatever that expectation is you will get it.

    For example take buying a cheap car. One person goes out with the additude. I don't care what it looks like I just want a car that runs. Another says I only have a few dollars but Im getting a nice one.

    They both have the same money but Ill bet they get what they where looking for.

  3. cos you were better at it then what you thought?

  4. It has been proven that when you think to yourself that you cant do soemthing, you can. When you start to think this is easy i can do it! you actually might be able to. Example: Recently i went ice skating. I was really, really bad! i kept slipping and all that.. then i started saying to myself i can do it :) and acting happy and not all miserable and saying to myself that i cant skate. Before i knew it, i was skating awayy.. My friends kept complaining about not being able to do it. Everytime i offer to take them ice skatin, they refuse and say they cant skate. No wonder why.. They dont beleive they can do it.. :)

  5. Hi there, I have a website that deals with this, you might find it useful.

    http://www.dream-life-coaching.com

    Click on the manifesting tab

    Good luck

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