Why is it whenever a woman is unhappy about how a guy treats her she and her friends say what a jerk?

Question

he is and how he should change?

Rather than what a jerk she is for picking that kind of guy?

Answer 1

well, we like getting together a bitching/ making fun of the "jerk".  sometimes we even compare dates!  oh! and if they're a real d**k, we tell EVERYONE how small their p***s is.  but if you're asking why women stay with abusive fools, that's usually because they are afraid.  sometimes women and men just take what they can get so they don't have to be alone, even if they are unhappy. choosing or ending up with a bad person does not mean you are one though.

Answer 2

no changing men just leave not your job to change anyone

Answer 3

These GIRLS grow up into women, see they are wasting their time,  and dump/divorce the jerk.  

The jerks end up alone in the end.

Lonely jerks with a receding hairline and a beer-belly.  

A ponytail is a dead giveaway every time.

*Yes.  I answered your rhetorical question.

If you didn't understand it the first time around please re-read.

Answer 4

Well, I guess it's kinda like you guys calling us psychos, b!tches and whores when you are unhappy with the way we treat you.

And don't tell me you don't do that, you Judas. :)