Why is latin culture so much more laid back socially?

Question

I been to spain, italy, mexico and now im in south america. Im in my early 30s and as an aussie guy I would find it difficult to meet "laid back" girls. Notice I said emphasised on the laid back part, as meeting girls was easy, Im fairly tall and well built, Im athletic have a good job and look younger than my age.

But since a while now I noticed girls my age getting more and more embittered. I really felt there must be something up with that. I didnt agree that this negative attitude be the norm for girls everywhere. So I started dating younger less emotionally hung up ladies. Things were ok but not fantastic. A latin friend of mine suggested I go to south america for the summer and open my horizons abit.

At 1st I felt it was a daunting prospect, new language, new culture, new people and new places. Anyways Ive been here for almost 8 months and plan to return once my 1 yr visa expires. It has been nothing but fun and good times. I cant say one thing wrong, the girls here never get angry or unsettled over trivial things. They ring me constantly. Where as Id get maybe a date or 2 in a month. Here I get that many a day. And theres no stigmas with dating younger at all. Here my friends actually encourage it. So I gotten used to dating well under my age. Around 17-21. And since I look 25 its no issue at all. Some of the girls even say that if I looked 40 they still find my personality contageous and exciting. They dont ask for much here. I know latin culture is more lively and everyones into dancing and making friends. But I had no idea that socially they are light years ahead too. Gone are the petty insecure excuses of young women ditching me last minute dates. Girls here are so confident and forthright. Im afraid I cant look at white women any more in the same light. Ive really become accustomed to this. And for those that will say their gold diggers, well latin women do respect themselves and most will decline if i want to pay for everything, especially since I date in the rich suburbs mostly.

So what gives, and why cant white women be more like this?

Answer 1

Has alot to do with culture and traditions, and also where a certain society is moving and what stereotypes are common and not. In latin culture I have found that women are more worldy. They understand responsibility from an early age. They are not so sheltered as are westerners and as such will always take life with all its quirks and unfairness without batting an eye.

I met alot of strong women that are latin, most have such a natural extroverted charm about them. And many will bring out the charm in me! They dont shy from anything, and yes their culture is light years ahead of ours. Mostly because they have no hangups about just being women. In the west we have become eroded with needless feminist values that have put a strain on the gender divide, even moreso than now. Both sides are so heavily polluted with feelings of entitlement without any one side conceding anything. Do you ever wonder why theres so many man hating singles in their 30s and 40s? Its the same ones who thought they could play hard to get with their horrible personalities and sub par looks.

Anyways these girls learn too, sometimes way to late for their own good.