Why is life so confusing when you are 14? Any suggestions?

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Why is life so confusing when you are 14? Any suggestions?

Answer 1

You are living in a confusing society. But see this site. It has advice for teen girls and even tells you that we are in a girl hating society. It will help you and you can always ask for advice. http://www.phifoundation.org/teen.html

Answer 2

For most this is the age of growth, many things are happening in the body and the mind.

The result of this can cause a lot of confusion and frustration, and often times you feel that your at your wits end. It's not uncommon nor is it abnormal. It's a natural part of becoming a young adult.

There's nothing to fear at the end of the tunnel, mean while you just let your hormones and your bodies natural chemicals do what they need to do to prepare you for adulthood.

Another reason someone around the age of fourteen may feel confused is society itself. Many teens try and discover themselves and find their place in society. The problem is there are so many areas to choose from, and not all of them are welcome to new comers.

Joining a group of people isn't easy as an outsider, you have to understand boundaries and know when you are welcome. This is very much like a national geographic episode, there is little difference between a pack of wolves and a group of teenagers, the same rules apply to all.

Don't try to hard to fit in, it's not always the best route. It's important to understand who you are, not what you think people want you to be.

Your only a teenager once, so make the best of it.