Why is life so dumb?

Question

i met this incredible girl not to long ago the moment i saw her i just froze it was just everything about her! I never had a girldfriend before I just have very low self esteem I always doubted myself since everytime I liked a girl they liked someone else so you obviously know who that would make you feel. I never been a jerk or a a**hole to women I've always repected women and I'm just tired of seeing other guys with the girls i liked and especially now that there's not doubt in my mind that i love this girl want can i do. It just makes me sick to these girls being treated wrong i think women are the most beautiful thing in this world why treat wrong in this world women are pretty much a huge s*x symbol it's just about who has s*x with the most girls and I dont want to see her get used or hurt. If I had the chance I would make her so happy I know it I would show her what love is really about. She's just always on my mind I even wrote a song about her I just don't know what to do I think she likes this other guy why life just give me a chance. Like i said i never felt like this before if i were to count the stars at night and give each one a reason why i love her there wouldn't be enough stars any advice? thanks

Answer 1

Maybe you should start acting like the rest of the guys out there cuz in the end we're all fighting for that prize.

Answer 2

Polygamy is waiting, just make sure that you are ready to be a polygamist as well, and be ready never to feel like you own somebody ever again. Then you can be free to f*ck and she can be free to f*ck, and we can have as many orgies as we want until all of the angst is dissapated.... Condoms are here to help us with this!

Answer 3

aww, that is very sweet. but honestly, as a girl, i know that i find confidence in a guy very very s**y. Be confident that you are not like all the other guys out there.

You sound younger, maybe 16 or 17?? well, let me tell you that you will meet many girls who take your breath away but go out on a limb, be their friend, ask them out. what do you have to lose?

in my experience, ive meet a lot of guys who I thought were "the one" and it didnt work out and i was crushed. but i know that that means that they really werent "the one". all you can do is love and hope to be loved in return. if she is the one, it will all work out. if shes not, then move on or else you might miss the girl who is the one.

Answer 4

as a girl. I think its really awesome that you respect women, not many guys do today... hey who knows, maybe this girl might end up liking you eventually, ya never know. but if she doesn't 'like' you, maybe you should get to know her, and let her get to know you, maybe if she finds out all that stuff you were saying about women in your question, she'll respect you a lot and would probably consider going out with you since she would understand your opinions on women. I hope it works out for you :)

Answer 5

There is nothing you can do about it bro. I feel you but you have to let it be.

Answer 6

As someone asked here, why should life be dumb ? As a woman, I so much love the way you think, and you sound very very romantic. But trust me, although you'd hate me saying it...romance, (as in romeo and juliet) never works. Although, I would love to have a guy like you, it doesnt work love. You need to understand the woman, of whose ''face'' you saw and fell in love with ! There's more than the face. Interact, get freindly. And being a romantic, do not first off tell her how many stars you count. It turns on older women, but I am not sure about younger women.....so be careful not to be hurt.

Heres what I think you should do. Get to ''KNOW"' her. How she is in her mind....how she interacts, likes and dislikes..and most importantly how she treats pple. Why I say this is because you sound ''inconfident'' although you have a very beautiful mind and heart. Trust me, the worlds biggest riddle is ''a WOMAN''. And you may get upset if she sort of....acts a bit snobbish...So be confident....shake hands with her, (start with some warm and sweet words....''hey hi...or something..iam sure you know better) and be freinds, and then you can take it to your next level....it wil work, I am sure, when she sees how much you respect women. That works with most women....so try it.

good luck

Answer 7

people are idiots.

just wait until she moves on and ask her out. or just compete with him.

its good to know at least someone isnt a sh*tlicker.

Answer 8

"why is life so dumb?"

good question