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Why is life so unfair to some people and over abundant to others?

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the unfairness wasn't of my own but of someone else's life.

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  1. To some trials and tribulations are challenges they accept as building blocks to their character. Life unfolds itself in waves and nothing is permanent so to some fairness or unfairness of fate is a temporary state of circumstances. Having the right frame of mind and attitude will provide peace of mind when times are hard.  


  2. dunno, wish i did...

  3. Because there's no reason for it not to be.

  4. The why of it is your answer, subjective reasoning. A balance is there,  good/unfair, unfair depicts evil. If unfair is there and no one is there to see it, does abundant unfair, evil exist?

    Life is unfair unless you open your eyes wider and are thankful for being awakened from the sleep. Some unborn souls never awake, as the unfair struggle began when you won your first contest as a spermatozoa. Rejoice, you and I are here, breathe and be as happy as possible, make it a better world, attempt through knowledge to construct a more civilized condition, before we return to the final change.

  5. "Life" as you use it must be divided into two parts: Nature, and the nature of being human.

    Nature knows nothing. It is not sentient. It does not know you or your friend exists, let alone knowing that it exists itself. In this sense, it is neither fair, or unfair. And such abundance as nature may heap upon some is strictly by chance.

    As for the nature of being human, there are a variety of reasons, but you don't say what happened to your friend, so a short list is in order:

    1. Some people work harder than others at what they get.

    2. Sometimes other people get in the way of success, or become the cause of catastrophic unfairness, and not always by their own choice.

    3. Some people have abundance heaped on them such as an inheritance. Others are prettier or smarter and get more attention.

    There are so many reasons they can't all be listed. I'm sorry to hear your friend got the short end of the stick. But since you fail to say what it was, no sure answer is available.

  6. I think life is fair its just that we get so consumed by our own worries that we forget about others' misiries.  I work as a dialysis tech and i see patients every day, some cry out of pain and some just complain all the time.  Over the years i have become insensitive to their pain because i am always consumed so much with what i go through everyday.  But couple of weeks ago, i paid attention to their pain and thought about them, and in that process i forgot about mine.  And i really felt bad for what they were going through, and the pain that they have to endure.  And then my problems seemed nothing infront of their.

         Most people in this world live for themselves, we should learn to live for others and only then we will see each and every one of us has problems.  And if we dont have one right now, may be we are heading towards it.     LIFE IS FAIR,  We only get what we can handle, not less and not more.   BE PATIENT...  PATIENT

  7. Time and chance happen to all. Patience.

  8. This depends what you are calling an abundance. In terms of money, yes, things seem to only go well for some and not for others. Some people can't handle money as well as others. Some people are just fortunate through relatives, investments,and good business sense. I can't seem to wrap my head around this either. The one thing that I do know is that people who have money, seem to have things going their way, and never having to go without are sometimes the most miserable. They have all the material things that they can ever wish for, but there is no depth to them. They have to surround themselves with things instead of having love in their lives.

    I look at what's going on with Jennifer Aniston for instance. She has all the money she wants, killer looks, and a lifestyle we dream we could all have. On the flip side to that, look at her track record with relationships with men. She has been in more relationships and been dumped by more guys than the average woman.  Being high profile only makes it worse because she seems to come off as a femme fatale or something because she can't keep a man. You would think with all her money, fame, and looks she should have no problems; but she does. I don't know why she can't keep a man, but there's something about her that isn't allowing her to connect and keep a man longer than a mere couple of months or a year or two.

    It may seem she has it all, but she is the cliche' of that saying: poor little rich girl. She's rich in material possessions, but poor in the matters of the heart.  

  9. You can't know how good someone else's life is unless you're them. Even if you experience their situation they may experience it differently. They may say their life is bad too, but that is a subjective term. It's only safe to assume that we all have the same chance of having a good or bad life. In the end, the outcome is up to you.

  10. destiny cant really explain it self it just happens

    like a dog ended up either with a rich owner or a good owner or a poor owner its

    all up to destiny, some people are born to live and others born for struggles. in a sense burdens are reality's every one carries there own load and has the time and oppurtunity to make decisions, if someone had a super abundant life they only did good and had ethics that accepted nature and life. but not every oneis open to live a perfectly good life it cant be achived in one day.

  11. I guess that you're suggesting that life is a living thing, by which most likely you mean God, so if you're referring to God and you're a believer  I would see a priest or pastor as soon as possible. If you're not referring to God but you think that life is an entity but you weren't referring to God then I can't help you.

    Now, if don't believe in God or that life is a living entity then your question woulnd't make any sense, since you would be asking why something that doesn't exist and which is only a human concept is unfair.

  12. That's what I would like to know, it seems I can never win, no matter what I do, I can never come out ahead.

  13. Some people starve to death while others get fat.  Im sure if more people cared or wasn't oblivous to the fact things would change but I guess thats just the way it is

  14. Be grateful for what you have and the people around you. Wealth is not the measure for success in life. Always remember, no matter who are, what color our skin is, or how much money we have, we all put our pants on the same way, one leg at a time.  

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