Why is my best friend (and even my girlfiend) acting like this?

Question

My best friend has recently moved into me and my girlfriends apartment. As long as he has been with us, he has been cracking rude jokes about and to my girlfriend, also about s*x and I never found it amusing but never showed that I wasn't happy about this. I had to put a brave face on because I haven't ever argued with him before. He said something last week after my girlfriend asked him "how was the shower?" and he replied "wet". My girlfriend laughs at his comments which upsets me.

But the biggest problem was when they were both snuggling up watching the telly in front of my very eyes with him massaging my girlfriends b*****s, neither of them caring I was there sat on the chair in the same room watching them.

I dont understand why any of them are behaving this way. Ever since he moved in, my girlfriend has hardly ever took notice of me. They are two best things in my life and seems like I am the one that moved in. I am worried that If I confront them about it, it will bring them closer. I know that sounds wierd but thats how I feel. What would you do now in this situation

Answer 1

Damned right you confront them!  What the h**l are they doing cuddling and he's massaging her b*****s?

Is she or is she not YOUR girlfriend?  This c**p has to stop!

If she's yours, then he has to move out and she has to start behaving.

If she's not yours anymore...maybe you have to move out.

Both of them are cheating on you.  

Answer 2

Well it sounds to me like its time you moved on.I am hearing this and am appauled she is being a total s***k infrontof you and he is stealing your woman.I think they probibly cant get much closer no offence but I would bet money that they are having s*x from what you said.She should have at least told you its over I mean she should keep off your budy but obiously she has no morals or she wouldnt let him touch her much less massage her b*****s and cuddle.Dump her you can do better trust me.Move out and move on.And not all women will be like that dear but most are just remember that dear.Ask her what the root of the problem is she may still care but may be trying to get you to end it or be jelouse and have you kick his....to show how much she means to you.Its odd I know but women can be odd sometimes dear.

Answer 3

stop lyin an admit yo homosesxualitee. get outa the kloset.

Answer 4

haha, it sounds like your girlfriend is starting to gravitate toward your best friend! If I were you, I would say **** em both and start seeing other broads.

Answer 5

Confront her first. Stay calm. Explain you're not happy with situation. What Kylie said.

Remember - a true friend wouldn't do that to you.

Answer 6

You call their behavior friendship

Hardly, either one respects you - these are not best friend and girl friend they are totally disrespecting you.

Move out - move on - and leave the both of them to themselves - if they could do this to you - they deserve each other - sounds like they can start a beautiful relationship on dishonesty, mistrust, and cheating -

Good for them - can't imagine that lasting too long.

Answer 7

I WOULD PUT A STOP TO THAT c**p, YOU MIGHT END UP GIRL FRIENDLESS AND BEST FRIENDLESS BUT AT LEAST YOU'LL HAVE A PIECE OF MIND. THAT'S JUST TOO FAR AND YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE LET IT GOT THIS FAR.

GOOD LUCK