Why is my cancerian friend acting like this?

Question

2 weeks ago I loaned my good friend $200.00. He is down and out in between jobs so I felt bad for him. When I loaned him the money he couldn't even look at me in the face. He mumbled the phrase thank you and then quickly left. He said he would pay me back in a month. However, that same day he called me and asked me could I also cook him dinner, since I was off that day. I said no because I have a lot of work to do. Any way since I loaned him money he's been really acting weird. He barely says anything to me when he's around and can not look me in the eye. When I ask him hows everything going he just rolls his eyes. I mean wtf? I'm not expecting him to kiss my ***. I had no problem giving him the money when he asked since we've known each other for 12 years. However, I should've seen the red flags when his own d**n family wouldn't help.

Answer 1

cancers are weird they are selfish and giving at the same time nice but manipulating...confront him they dont like to be called out...but he will probably avoid you b/c he is embarassed he had to borrow money but try aking him for a buck they are tight wads...

Answer 2

Wow, honestly as much as I'm into astrology, it sounds like this guy would be a jerk no matter what sign he belonged to. All of the Cancers I know hate to ask for money in the first place and if they have to borrow they always pay back. With that being said, there are lowlifes in every sign and he just happens to be one. I hope you can get your money back from this bum but since he can't even look you in the eye I don't think he plans on doing the honorable thing. If anything, at least you saw him for the loser that he is and you'll know not to go out of your way to help him in the future. I mean what kind of person asks someone to cook for them when HE'S the one that owes you money. He should be offering to cook for you.

Thanks scallion =o)

Answer 3

maybe hes just going threw sum things he dosnt want to talk about and maybey hes embarassed thats the only thing i can think of y he would be acting funny sounds like u guys r good friends tho so u shouldnt let that come in between

Answer 4

Cancers are very vain people. Anytime they have to rely on someone else it is a serious blow to their ego and pride.

Answer 5

probably asking money from you was his very last decision. he's terribly ashamed of asking money from his friend, what more, a girl friend. maybe we're looking at some bruised ego here.

one of cancers source of security is money independence. and we never like to depend on someone we like or love for money, instead, when we really care for the person, we could and would spend all the money we have for our loved ones.

and your friend might not be in the position to do that. he feels bad. but he will make up to it.

kramers sis- she knows her cancers! yeah, we hate asking for money. like i said, hate it.

Answer 6

CANCER iS A BiG DEAL AND MAYBE iTS BECAUSE HE'S GOiNG THROUGH ALOT AND H3'S AFRAiD MAYBE SOMETHiNG BAD MAY HAPPEN TO HiM SiNCE HE HAS CANCER AND HE DOESN'T WANT TO HURT YOU...HOPE MY ADViCE HELPED