Why is my casual s*x partner acting like he's in love with me?

Question

I've had a casual s*x partner for almost a year. Before you judge, I'm 31 and I've been happy with this because I recently got out of a bad 5 year r/ship and haven't been ready to jump back into another serious relationship, but I still like male companionship. But I'm confused about my casual s*x partner's behavior lately.

Last time we were having s*x, he said "Do you want this... forever?" He said it twice and emphasized "forever." What does this mean? Is he hinting he could see us together forever? Thanks!

Also he was talking about things we can do together in the future, like take a trip together, go out with his friends. And he said I made a connection with him and I said "You've made a connection with lots of girls." (because he's been with a lot.) And he said "Yeah, but I haven't been with anyone since you." Then he asked me if I had been with any other guys and I said "No" and he said "That's good." We also talk and hang out and we really have fun together and a lot in common. And when we sleep he cuddles with me all night and does really affectionate things like gently stroke my face and kiss my forehead. Thanks!

Answer 1

grass-hopper you must seek-out A new "F "buddie.....call me

Answer 2

He wants to be more than just F buddies...

Answer 3

because theres no such thing as casual s*x if its been going on for over a year

Answer 4

he doesnt wanna be ur booty call anymore .. sounds like his falling for you .. =)

Answer 5

It's really hard to tell.  Some guys just say things when they're in the heat of the moment.  But it is possible that he has feelings for you.

Answer 6

Being casual s*x partners often leads to feelings of love.

I'm actually starting to fall for the girl I'm seeing casually now, but I know it would never work between us so I can't pursue it. The point is: He might actually be in love. If you like this, see where it goes. If you don't, find someone else.

Answer 7

Because, unfortunately for you, he is.  He has forgotten the "rules of engagement" regarding your casual relationship.  You are at a crossroads - either explore the possibility of a relationship, or he has to go.  It would probably be impossible for him to ignore his feelings and be a "sexbot" after letting them develop.

Answer 8

He is falling in love... if hes not that bad try to get to know him

Answer 9

he wants your relationship to advance and it is time for you to decide how you feel before he gets hurt.

Answer 10

you have the aswer right in front of you, he wants to explore more with you, either decide thats the way, or pass.  

Answer 11

You know what's going on.  Don't play ignorant.  It's been a year.  You like this guy.  Everything is good.  Give him a chance.  Take it past the bedroom and see if you can make it work.  You know you're compatible.  You are about to lose him for just s*x no matter what you do so it's probably time to see if he'll be a good boyfriend as well as a lover.  

"Love like you've never been hurt"

Answer 12

It's quite obvious that he is looking for more than just a casual sexual relationship. If you are not into that, you need to set things straight and fast. It may be hard for him to take, but it's best to get it out now and not wait.