Why is my dad ignoring me just because im g*y help!?

Question

wel i recently came out to my mum about being g*y and she took it into her own hands and told my dad about it now he's ignoring me and he won't stop. why can't he just accept it he's seriosly depressing meh...

Answer 1

How the h**l is being g*y a choice?? I was born g*y and ive always known, I did not choose to be g*y.

Answer 2

because your dad is an a*****e that doesn't except you for who you are!

Answer 3

just follow your ambition. if your dad doesn't wanna deal with it then fine! just do what you want to do.

Answer 4

Give it some time for him to come around.  Most dads who are straight naturally think their sons are going to grow up to be like them.

When dad is not around, ask you mom how long she thinks it will take for your dad to accept you as you are.  You might mention to your mom that their are support groups for straight guys who have g*y sons.  If it joins the group for a meeting, it might help.  But don't press it.  Let your dad try to come around on his own.

Tell mom you are prepared to wait for your dad to accept it (it does take time) but you do not want to wait forever, since he is the only dad you have.

When he does come around, tell your dad being g*y is NOT a choice in life.  You are either born g*y or not.  It's beyond your control.  If he does not believe this, ask him to consult an expert psychologist who will explain it to him.

Answer 5

being g*y is a choice in life. And face it, some people dont like other choices rite? i think what ur father is duin is being a bad dad. He probably doesn't like that choice that you made. Try to convince him that your choices are important too...

Answer 6

ur dad is an A$$

Answer 7

i am sorry for u...

i think it is harder for a dad to be open to a g*y son for the fact that he too has a p***s and can't see how a guy can like p***s...I think it will take time, and it might be a long time for him to open to you again...I think u need to keep trying and trying to talk to him don't let him shut u out cause there is nothing wrong with u for being g*y..

Answer 8

Alex y is wrong, it is definitely not a choice, recent studies have shown that there are hormonal differences, and possibly genetic ones.

I doubt that few individuals would actually "choose" to be g*y, as it's still more socially acceptable and easier to be hetero.

However, enlightened people accept g**s as being people, who are just different in their orientation.    

I think that your father is having difficulty accepting this, and he doesn't know how to deal with it.    Give it time, and perhaps he'll come around, perhaps not.

Just accept yourself, and try to live your own life to make yourself happy.     If he can't accept it, then it's his problem.