Why is my daughter acting so strangely.....?

Question

for the past 3 weeks or so she's been acting like she's scared to death of something but she won't tell me what.....she's 14 and she's been scared to sleep in her own room by herself for some reason...she's been sleeping in my room.....and the other night I refused to let her sleep in my room unless she told me what was wrong and she had my oldest daughter comepick her up at 2 am and she spent the night at her house... if she can't sleep in my room or go to her sister's house she'll just stay up until morning she won't eat anymore....she always seems so sad and she doesn't even watch tv or do anything during the day she just sits staring at the wall.....once in a while she'll pick up a pen a paper and she writes the most disturbing "poems" I've ever heard.....she won't talk to me and I've had my older daughter try to find out what's wrong but she won't open up....what does it sound like could be wrong with her??? what could possibly bring on this behavior out of nowhere ?

Answer 1

i remember being 14 and doing things like that too

she's just growing up i guess

i mean, maybe you should talk to the school or something and ask if anythings been going on in school

it might be about a guy?

you should open up things with her and maybe she'll do the same

good luck =]

Answer 2

seems you might have a budding emo on your hands, or a girl that is being tormented by demons and ****.

Answer 3

Something may have happened to her that she isn't telling you. Take her aside for a talk. I truly hope it is not serious but it sounds bad.

Answer 4

take her out for a drive, and lock the doors, therefore no escape. tell her if there is anything that is wrong, she can always come tell you. tell her that you can't force her to telll you whats up, but shes going to have to talk sometime poems aren't the only thing she has. keep driving until you get a word out of her. if you can't then ask her sister to. thats pretty much all you can do. us teenagers are so hard to crack these days...

Answer 5

IM THINKING IT MIGHT BE BOY PROBLEMS...OR SHE HAS EXPERIENCE A TRAGIC DEATH AT SCHOOL..JUST TAKE HER TO THE SCHOOL COUNSELOR OR SIT HER DOWN AND TRY AGAIN TO COMMUNICATE WITH HER

Answer 6

Have you looked for clues in the content of her poems?

What are the themes? Being trapped, hurt, abused, confused, angry?

finding those might help you initiate a conversation indirectly that could gently lead her into telling you what's wrong.

Answer 7

have you talked to her about drugs, not to scare you but perhaps that talk may be useful, or maybe its boyfriend problems, or depression.

Answer 8

she's emo!

Answer 9

Do you live in a new place our have you lived there for a while? Do you know anything about the place you live in, I mean the history of the place and the land. It could be that your daughter's body has been taken over by a spirit that once lived in the home or on the land. You should do some research on the place. Then you might want too have a priest come a bless your home,and pray over your daughter. You could also hire some paranormal  personal too come out and check your home,and see if they discover if there are some spirit's there in the home with you,that could have caused this too happen to your daughter. Also check and see if anything happened at school recently. Are thank back and she if you can remember if your daughter seemed uneasy around a certain person are person's she has been around lately,are that you and her may have been around lately. Just play detective and ask a lot of question's until you get some answer's.Ask God's favor in helping you'll through this entire thing. Good Luck and God Bless You All.

Answer 10

well i'm 15 and i'm just going to give you some ideas that might make her act the way she is...

1.She might be getting a cold shoulder in school from all her friends..especially the girls.

2.She might be having a bad relationship with guy or girl..

3.She could have act or do something foolish that made her the laughing stock of school.

4.this is the most worrisome, had she gone to any parties, get together, etc.. if she has you might need to find out more about where that was and who was there (guys) if you know what i mean.

i hope it helps =]

Answer 11

you better get her to counselor or therapist something happened it doesn't sound good and if she wants to sleep in your room let her question her friends they will know

Answer 12

maybe she on something. She must be because if she wasnt she would act normal. Or she is talking to someone from online and she is freaking out. I would try to talk to her to see whats wrong with her.

Answer 13

Sounds like she has had something very bad to have happen to her, maybe she has been raped, or has wittness something very bad and afraid for her life , let her sleep in her room with you till you can get her some help to get her to open up.Get her some counseling