Why is my ex being so nasty ?

Question

me my ex split 8 weeks ago he left we stayed talking for a couple of weeks then i decided i could nt get over it unless we dont speak he emailed to start wiv nice stuff then he got nasty each time saying that he will never contact me again i thought find then he emailed me after 3 weeks was nice wished me luck but i still never replied as i cant i still love him need to have no contact then he emailed me the nexted day being nasty and insulting me about my weight which i not that big so why is he insulting me about my weight which he knows i dont like was wiv him 4 years and never mentioned it before is he wanting some reply cause he aint had one frm the last lot of mail he has sent me is he wanting a reaction y would some one say that to u if they loved you and the day before he said he alway be grateful for wot i done for him then to put some thing so nasty it was me that ended it due to him bulling and making my children feel uncomfortable in there home i never wanted to end it i love him so much but he went to far this time so i had to end it

Answer 1

Don't bother replying unlwess you wana fuel his fire keep it legal and between the lawyers

Answer 2

Oh wow, please edit this.

Answer 3

Wiv??? What the h**l is wiv or wot? Not very intelligible. Sounds like he is just pissed, who cares? He is your ex, he doesn't owe you anything. Ignore him and get on with your life.

Answer 4

Sounds like he spat his dummy out because you're ignoring his e.mails, he probably feels a bit hurt that you haven't you haven't replied and he is trying to hurt you back, pretty immature of him, and yes he is wanting a reaction, but don't give him one!!! Change your e.mail address, or carry on ignoring him, in fact when you see one from him, don't even read it, just delete it, keep moving on, you're doing fine so far, seriously!!!!

Answer 5

Ok shouldn't there be a limit to how many lines one can add in details? My vote is three. I fell asleep reading this!

Answer 6

IMMATURE, ARROGANT, JEALOUS, INSECURE

Answer 7

This has got to be the longest sentence I've ever seen.

Ok I don't know what you said, but to answer your question:

He's your X. You broke up with him, do you expect him to love you and swoon over you? Of course he's going to be nasty to you! You broke his heart.

Read this:

This got to be the longest sentence I ever seen Ok I dont know what you said but to answer your question he your X. You broke up wiv him do you expect him to luv you and swoon over you of course hes going to be nasty to you you broke his heart.

do you understand that?

Answer 8

You are doing the right thing.  If it is over then let it be over.  He is insulting you and being nasty trying to get a response out of you.  

Change your email address and keep doing what you are doing.  It is the best thing for all involved.

Answer 9

He's probably being nasty because you wont reply to his emails. He's probably trying to see how far he can push you and with you not replying, he might get the hint that he cant bother you with what he says or does. Your not giving him the attention or reaction that he thought he would get. His emails might upset you and get on your nerves and if you replied, he would know that he got to you. I would suggest getting a new email address and focusing on you and your childrens life. Your all better off without him if he treats you this way.

Good Luck

Answer 10

You should pat yourself on the back! You have the sense to see what is going on. It is all about power. He is getting nasty when he feels he doesn't have any other way to rule you. You are right the cracks about your weight were because he knew it would bother you. Putting your children first is the right thing to do. Distancing yourself and not taking his messages is the right thing. You just keep on doing the right thing and be proud of yourself.

Answer 11

Your lack of punctuation renders your inane ramblings totally incomprehensible. Read it back to yourself and you will extract from it nothing more than a tangled heap of words that bear no semblence of meaning.

Answer 12

Oh my goodness. Is your spell check broken?  I couldn't even understand this.

Answer 13

well he's just all pissed that you never return the e-mails. You're doing the right thing. He should've never said anything bad about you. If he was trying to get you back then he would sweet talk not nasty talk. Just keep on ignoring, move on with your life, as he should!

Answer 14

Learn to use "." and paragraphs.

But to answer your question...

...divorces are always ugly at first. It's natural.