Why is my ex so concern?

Question

My ex gf is moving in with a guy and getting married next year. I wished her luck, but told her to move on ( she wants to remain friends). I think its wrong, because it wasn't a mutual breakup. I found someone else, and I guess she found out through a friend. Now she wants to no everything about her. I never asked about her new guy. Why is she so nosy. I told her I would never date her again. Why does she want to know. Isn't she happy with her guy

Answer 1

I would think she wants everything to be alright between the two of you. Just be straight with her. You're not going to be friends with her.....the end. And leave it at that. If she contacts you after that....don't answer it. She'll eventually get the hint.....hopefully.

Answer 2

She's trying to be a friend. I don't think it's possible after a break up.

Answer 3

yeah she's not over you at all.

Answer 4

she probably didn't get closure. Or maybe you were abusive to her and she feels like she needs to save You from this new woman. I know it sounds silly but it is likely. Your infidelity to her is emotional abuse so i doubt that was the only incident in your relationship...

either way. Your continuous contact with her is making it more and more difficult for her to let go. If you truly intend to leave her in the dust, then do it! Don't allow her to be strung along on any more false hopes. Even though you 'said' it is over, you have still kept in touch which for some reason is giving her hope for reviving your relationship.

Answer 5

she obviously is not over it and needs some form of closure. But some may say that why are you even answering her calls or even paying attention to any detail of her life.

I think that even you going on answers and asking the question shows some sort of interest on what she does with her life.

Maybe you should re evaluate what you really want before she says I do to him.

good luck

Answer 6

if it was me  - i'd try stay away from her... she's obviously not happy with her new man so to avoid any problems for you, make sure you tell her you don't want anything to do with her and keep away!

Answer 7

If you don't want to be friendly with her, then don't.  I am assuming you have told her how you feel and that's all you have to say about that.

Answer 8

well it´s  just ´´curiosity´´....

it doesn´t mean anything...

I'm sure it´s because u were someone special in her life..so she will always care for u and will feel curious to know everything about u..eventhough she´s in love with someone else...

just tell her that u guys can´t be friends...

gd luck!

Answer 9

she may feel she did not get closure.. I suggest you just ignore her because she won't stop.. its obvious she is not happy in her relationship she is just trying to get over you. if she was happy she would not be calling or talking to you...  

Answer 10

I think she still likes you lol. Or she is just being nosy... wanting to talk.. know what you're up to.