Why is my friend behaving this way?

Question

This friend liked me in 1999 and on my birthday at 1999 around the time she confessed she liked me and I said I didn't like her. I congratulated her for her wedding and say I am glad she is happy. Then she seems cold and says do I sound unhappy to you. I said I apologized if it sounded that way and I say I am glad she is happy, is she holding some grudges on me for not liking her last time or maybe she still likes me, I take her as a friend but is it girls takes grudges for so long? Any idea why she is behaving like that? I have seen her since 1999, it's not important about this issue, it's just that I am curious why she is behaving like that.

Answer 1

hmm..i believe,being a girl myself,i think she may still harbour feelings for you. you saying you dont like her stopped the hope that she could go out with you. and yes,girls can hold grudges for that long.us females are very complex beings,and when you said you didnt like her,she may have,in a sense,"given up on you" but i really would have to see for myself. hopefully i have helped. bye,have fun.

Answer 2

girls tends to hold grudges for a very very long time

Answer 3

girls are like that usually to check wether u feel guilty... u wont understand..its a girl thing

Answer 4

perhaps she is angry that you aren't jealous of her happiness, like maybe she was hoping you'd break into a big song and dance routine about how much you love her before she tied the knot. she might still have strong feelings for you.