Why is my friend soo STUPID!?

Question

Honestly, I'm good at giving advise to myself and others, but this is just obscure. Seriosuly, this is what had happened...

Last week he arranged a basketball game and said that I have to come so I said yes. He did not tell me the time and only the day. He knows that I go to a tutor everyday as I'm studying for Calculus lately. I don't know what it seems he forgot I go the tutor and when he called me the night before, he told me to come play during the night time and that's when I had to go to my tutors. Then he should put in a really awkward position by saying he'll ger really mad if I don't come and that I should skip my tutors...I know crazy eh? Anyways, I obviosuly did not come play bball and decided to go to my tutors and do integration. Went on msn last night and apologized again and he just try to make me all guilty and what not. I got so amd that even after I've been trying to be nice and apologizing, I just argued with him and totally told him off and now he's shutting up and we aren't talking anymore. Seriosuly this dude is too sensative and only cares about himself honestly. Like, school is approaching soon times and he should understand school is a lot more important than some stupid bball game! Anyways, i'll stop this rant of mine, but are the next steps that I should take in reviving this friendship no matter how ignorant and irrational he is?

Answer 1

I agree with mcloving's advice. You know whats best for you as far as school goes, plus you can go to a game anytime, but you only graduate once and most of us want to do that on time. you apologized and tried to show your concern for his feelings on the matter but if he can not give you the same respect for your decision, then the h**l with him and his childish thoughts, some friends never grow up even when they are grown, they just keep acting like life is a big party and fun is the only important thing. You do you and don't worry about his feelings, if he can't respect what you are trying to do for yourself and the course you are taking...h**l Calculus  is hard then the heck with him and his shallow mindedness. If he is a true friend then he will understand and get over it and move on...if not....keep it moving azz wipe.

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Answer 2

It depends, is he really a friend of yours, thats the question you need to ask yourself. IS he always like this or just one? Has he been there for you as a friend? Is it worth reviving it if he is always like? That question i can't really help you with usless you tell me what he is like. If it's a one time thing then yes you should, if he does it a lot then forget it you deserve better. A good friend won't make you pick.

Hope i have help :D