Why is my friend such a cow. ?

Question

We're good friends and shes always picking insults at me as a "Joke" they are hurtful and told her that she stopped for a while but then started again. Its worse now because her ex friend has had a fight with her friend and turned to my friend they are always making fun of me for no reason when i'm only doing the best I can, Whenever i do something good in class they go "Chelsey you nerd" They always walk away without me.I want to ditch her find new friends but its not that simple people all have their little groups and aren't that keen to get more people I am with the same group of people for every class so i'm not really with a variety of people i'm also very shy. What should I do, Year 7 for me is one of the worse years of school i've had. Its my first year of high school too and I hate it. What should I do?

Answer 1

Maybe they are jealous because you are better at your school work than them. Next time they call you a nerd for being good in school, tell them you would rather be a nerd with good grades than stupid. Believe me, all the hard work on your grades will pay off in the future so please dont let your grades slip to fit in. I know it seems a long way off, but your education is crutial to your future. When I graduated high school, you could get a lot of good jobs without a college education, now all you can look forward to is flipping burgers at Mickey D's, or other menial labor jobs if you dont have a college degree.

Try making friends with 1 person from some of the other groups that share some of the same interests as you. That will open the way to make a whole new group of friends because that one person will introduce you to the rest of their friends. It will take some effort on your part, but it will be worth it. You dont need criticism for doing good in school.

Answer 2

Call them fat.

>_>

Really.  It gets to them.  ((Of course this isn't about revenge.))

You CAN, just leave.  Being isolated is actually a good way to find new buddys.  Just be on your own for a while, and you'll do fine.  It's not like you depend on socialization, and you will have new friends soon, because you're such a great person, from the sounds of this.

Answer 3

im a guy. but i kinda kno what ur talking about. one girl whom i love is great friends with these other girls and they always make fun of her. like we read books and she theres a sexual word  mariah giggles and all the other girls are like oh god mariah you and your immature mind. and it gets meaner to. but theyre really good friends. maybe she likes the attention. i have no clue. i think its weird

Answer 4

Ignore them,tell them their right.It gets them mad to know your not sad or something.If they are like that don't really bother with them.

Answer 5

Since school is just begining to start try finding some newbies who are new to the school.Or join clubs.

Answer 6

If you are not happy with your current circle of friends, then you should either try to fix your issues with your current circle or go find a new circle of friends.

Most likely you will not even know the people you talk to now when you are in college. That may not sounds likely, but please trust me on that. In high school you can live for the moment for the last time, do what makes you feel happy...you probably will not have that opportunity ever again. I have not have that opportunity since my high school days.

Live for yourself, it's hard enough making yourself happy.  

Answer 7

i know what your going thru

its hard these girls are suppost to be your "freinds"

and it hurts like h**l my best freind all through out 7 grade did that 2 me but she stoped when she grew up and relised i was her real friend and she always tol me she did that out of jelousy and just being a *****  

Answer 8

It sounds to me like these people aren't true friends at all.It's like they are trying to hurt you,all you can do is try and make new friends or really explain to them how you are feeling.If they refuse to listen,or refuse that they are acting this way then just move on,do not become enemies,but simply try to forget and do your very best to find new friends,bring up conversations with some new people,or try to get in new groups at school for projects,activities,ect.

I really hope this helps!

if you could maybe answer my question?

it would be greatly appreciated!,good luck!:D