Why is my husband acting like this?

Question

My husband and I have been married for 1 1/2 years. Lately we have been fighting a lot and I always end up crying. He seems so unemotional and he used to be soooo emotional when we were dating. Just tonight he got off of work and went to his friend's house. (he had to drop off something) He didn't get home until 2 am! I was very upset because I have been saying that we don't get to spend a lot of time together and tonight we could have. He gets all mad becasue he says that he hadn't seen his friend in forever and he was catching up. I would've been fine with him staying an hour or so but not till 2 am!!! Why do you think he is acting like this? I've told him that he makes me feel like he doesn't love me anymore but he says that he does! How do I get him to realize that he needs to show me that he loves me?!

Answer 1

HONEY, THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO MAKE HIM SHOW YOU LOVE AND ATTENTION. HE ALREADY KNOW THAT HE'S EMOTIONALLY HAS LEFT THE RELATIONSHIP AND IT SOUNDS LIKE IT'S NOT FOR A FRIEND. WAKE UP. THERE'S SOMEBODY ELSE IN YOUR MARRIAGE. NOW IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO DO SOME INVESTIGATING. STOP ASKING HIM WHY? START SEEING FOR YOURSELF.

Answer 2

Women and Men need their own space and time away from each other. People change over the years things will come clearer soon enough, roll with the every changing tide.  

Answer 3

First he is lying. Second, you can't make him do anything. Third, draw a triangle with the tip being the marriage and the other two points are you at one point and him the other. Now, together have a conversation about how to make the "marriage" work. Remember, it is the marriage not you or him. Then create new agreements between the two of you that will support the marriage to be successful. You will have a breakthrough.  

Answer 4

If he starting the fights 9 out 10, he's causing them intentionally because he is guilty. He's so unemotional because someone has his emotions. A man only acts like that in such cases, if he's getting support from outside the marriage. I know you mentioned that he will not cheat, but when men cheat they're usually the signs. For your health, separate yourself emotionally by not picking up his calls, spend time with friends or family to past time by. Because he is hot-headed and short temperate. Trying to talk to him will only make things worst. He is aware how he's hurting you, he doesn't care at the moment. Be so nice to him, extremely nice to him until it makes him sick. But, stay with positive people so that you will be in a good environment. Don't try to figure or assume what is wrong, just keep yourself busy. I know it's easier said than done, but it's not impossible.

Answer 5

The honeymoon is over..!

Answer 6

talk to him,let him know how you feel and hopfully things take a better turn.

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Answer 7

Hey they say the first 5 years is the hardest.  SO they say.  

Men NEED and MUST have there guy time and you must give him as much as you have to.  Men also need there alone guy space.  If you don't have a garage, attic, big shed where he can have his alone man time.(not masturbating)  he's feeling trapped.   If you have none of those areas for him you better leave the house for 3 to 5 hours and tell him where your going and the phone number of the place a land line phone so any ideas your cheating on him will not pop up..

Answer 8

I think your husband is no longer interested in you.If you really want him and the marriage I think you will have to play games to keep him interested. Myself ,I could never be bothered, but perhaps you can. You get involved in other interests and other friends. Go out some nights. This will bring him around and not take you for granted.You don't have to do anything silly, but don't be so available for him. Good Luck.

Answer 9

You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel in a calm matter believe me men don't listen when were yelling explain to him that you need his love and affection and that your missing it and that your feeling a little distants between you both but remember in a calm matter when you express your feelings in a love matter they tend to listen