Why is my husband ignoring me i didnt do nothing to him?

Question

Why is my husband ignoring me i didnt do nothing to him?

Answer 1

need to put more info, he probably ignores you because he is either distracted, annoyed by your nagging, bored by you, or cheating.

Answer 2

try evaluating.. i think why your husband is ignoring you is because you didn't do anything... try talking to him about what you feel... try to observe your husband...

Answer 3

It depends on a number of factors. If you are of middle age, this could be due to middle age boredom, when nothing seems to interest a person. May be he has his own problem, which he does not care to discuss with you. Just because he is not giving proper attention to you, may not necessarily indicate that he does not love you.  Dont be unduly suspicious. Try taking a vacation. Also try to talk to him frankly. Avoid quarrels. I think this phase will not last long. Remember, if he is in love with somebody else, he would likely to keep it secret. So he would pretend to pay more attention to you.

Answer 4

I think it´s because you´re not an open person. For example in this question... is like me asking...why am I short, I never asked for it. I mean...you get it?

Answer 5

How are we suppose to know.  Maybe you did and don't know what it is, maybe he is no longer interested in you and is finding love elsewhere.  Follow where he goes and snoop around this could be the case.  

Answer 6

honey, you should ask HIM this question. also you haven't given enough details...how long you've been married, do you have kids, did you have any relationship problems before etc??

anyway, he could be acting this way because he's stressed/ mental physical ailment/ extra marital relationship/ roumers about you/ bored with you....could be anything.

so TALK to him, ask him whats wrong. or take him to a psychologist or marriage/family consultant.

In the mean time spice up your marriage - take him for a romantic dinner/ dance with him/ spice up your s*x life (s**y lingerie)/ change you hair to a s**y cut/colour/ get a few s**y outfits/ Cook him his favorite meal and most importantly - be patient and understanding. that way he'd feel too guilty to lose you. good luck.

    

Answer 7

He is probably ignoring you because you did nothing with him.

Are you doing things that make him happy?

Answer 8

probably something is bugging him that he doesnt want to talk about.

Answer 9

Sometimes men need to be alone. Something may have been said that you did not pay attend to, however he did.

There could be a lot of reasons.

You can only ask yourself and try to figure it out. Good Luck

Answer 10

you are haveing the same trubble my mom is with my step father i wish i was not a man because of stuff like this but yeah he probley is cheating on you man i am glad i am still single i am really scared now of haveing a girl friend  

Answer 11

He is ignoring you because he is upset and/or mad at you. You must have done something that he took offense to. He thinks he has a legitimate beef with you, so you best take a good look back and figure out what went wrong. Did you not hold up your part of something? Did you make a pact with him to take care of something? Some how you hurt his feelings and need to consider those feeling and not keep claiming you didn't do anything to him. Take an honest look at things and make them right. Good luck.

Answer 12

I dont know?

Answer 13

Why dont you just ask him nobody knows the answer but him.

Answer 14

really could use more info, to answer this one !

Answer 15

The old saying is if a man isn't getting it at home he is getitng it somewhere else and the 'it' could be conversation or companionship or more.  Where there is smoke there is fire.

Answer 16

I wish I could tell you...

stay strong!

Answer 17

the fact that you mention that you didn't do nothing to him tells me that you like to be right all the time.  You haven't showed him enough concern over this because all you are thinking is you didn't do anything so he should approach you instead of reaching out and finding out if there's something you could help him with or maybe reach out just to improve your marriage  all together.  

Leave your foolish pride aside....

Answer 18

Men  don't  like  discussing  problems usually till they  decide too.  Just offer  to help or  ask  nicely if  there is  something  he  would  like to discuss. If  he  refuses, just  wait a day or  so and  he  will decide to talk.  Its just  a  weird  man  thing.  

Answer 19

John Gray in "Women are from Venus, Man Are From Mars" says that sometimes men just need to retreat to their caves.  His advice is to leave them alone as they will come back out again.  Many times, it may have nothing to do with you at all.  Relax, don't have a guilty complex.  

Best of luck.  ;-)

Answer 20

??? is there anything special you forgot? maybe even something small like, the day you first kissed, or the day he first bought you flowers? maybe?!?!

im not sure... i allways tend to think i know these things.. but it could also be something he is having problems with... you should ask him, or if you have try to be extra nice to him, buy him flowers (or a gift) and then ask him what is bugging him!!

(if your a christian) pray about it! (well.... you are married!)

I always tend to want things being a man... when i dont get what i want it makes me upset and i have to deal with it... i am going to live, there is no doubt about that... but hey... life is full of wants - i look at it as, you cant have only the good things in life... maybe you should ride it through!