Why is my husband so in love all of a sudden?

Question

I have been married for 3 yrs. and we haven't accomplished nothing and I am tired of it. I don't want to waste another 3 yrs. I am ready to move on with my life because my husband is comfortable how everything is. Now that I talk about separation he can see clearly now. I have talked to him over and over about getting ahead now I have just run out of breath. I feel like I have been making more moves than him. I don't want the marriage any longer. Before we got married we talked about all this and it just seems as if he's gotten too comfortable.

Answer 1

Marriages go through stages.  If you truly love someone you don't give up. I don't know what it is you feel you should have accomplished but no matter who you are with you will have these stages in your relationship.  

He is not in love all of the sudden...he always loved you.  He just does not want to lose you and you have shaken his world. Love is hard to find......think it over.

Answer 2

if you really can't stand this, then yea get out. he wasnt willing to listen to you when you tried to confront him, but OH now he wants to come out of the closet and say "hey we should talk, i still love you" why the sudden change of heart? if you are dead set on moving on, do it.

Answer 3

You worked you way up through increasing degrees of attention getting, and you finally found out just how hard you had to hit him on the nose with the rolled up paper for him to catch on. Don't complain that he caught on. Maybe it took him to long and now there's been too much damage to fix, but don't complain that he tries.  

Answer 4

It's not all of a sudden. He's in love with you and the thought of losing you is more than he can bear.

Was there with my ex wife...lost her because of something I wouldn't do. I still love her and had I done that one thing she asked me to do MAYBE we'd still be married. I too realized how much I loved her after she was gone...your husband is smart - he realizes it now. Give him the chance my ex didn't give me. Divorce is PAINFUL.