Why is my life a mess? y r men pr*cks?

Question

im sick and tired of men, every man in my life has f***ed up. my dad is bast*** and i dont even know him. My aunts husband is a pr*** and so is my grandad. ive had alot of family probs in my life and the poeple that marry in to my family are a s***w up? is my family cursed or something? im scared of having a close relationship with men coz im afraid of getting hurt, i hate them! i really am starting to feel that maybe its meant to be like this for me and that my familys cursed

i thought that maybe all men arent the same when i was in a realtionship for 11 months then that was a big s***w up and i actually really liked the guy. i have some male friends but still seem to hate on men. will i ever stop or is this a phase? im sick and tired of being in a world were men are so self absorbed and cant care for a girl or be just the tiniest bit sensitive. i was told that im quite a deep person and quite attractive by many people but i hate it when im walking down the street and the only thing a guy looks at is the **** or b***s, dont guys ever want anything else ina girl. why are men so imature and cold hearted?

Answer 1

You're speaking through the pain of your experiences, and that's fine, as far as that goes. But you know good and damned well all men aren't evil or cold-hearted. All the people you know in your life (men and women) represent only a minute fraction of the entire population of the earth, yet on that basis you've condemned all men as worthless. If your experience had been with persons of color and you made a similar blanket assumption that all persons of color were "worthless", what do you suppose the reading audience would label you? Your experiences entitle you to your feelings of disappointment, and to your pains...no one can reasonably tell you you can't feel how you feel. But they do not entitle you to make blanket assumptions against millions of other people who have never even met you nor done you any harm...many among those millions are men. For every woman who feels this way, there is a guy who's hurting who has come to the same conclusions about women. He's wrong, too.

Answer 2

feel better now

Answer 3

Because they only think with the head in their pants

Answer 4

HINT: You're picking nothing but immature boys. Change your play places, get in a different circle.

Imagine your ideal mate, who is he? What kind of work does he do? What do you talk about? Where do you go? What do you do together?

Now go put yourself in the types of circles where you'd find such a man. (Hint Hint) It's not a bar.

Answer 5

Not all men are as you describe.

Maybe you are in the wrong circles

...or giving off the wrong signals.

Answer 6

its how were designed but if you dont like men then stick with other girls