Why is my mom sooo annoying?

Question

all I asked for was a simple birthday party with few of my friends thats it. is that such a hard thing to give me? I told her right from the beginning I just want to go out for a movie with my friends and then come home for a sleepover but no she had to go and invite the whole town like when she sees someone she knows she'd just ask them to come without even asking me first. and when I woke up this morning there were pink decorations everywhere! when I told her a hundred times I didnt want i. I'm turning 14 not 4. y would she do this? is there anyway I can tell her I dont want it?

Answer 1

you should be happy

Answer 2

Take down the decorations, stand by the front door, and if they don't know you, they have to go. That's what I say. That or just deal, since I don't think everyone could be there that long.

Answer 3

In ten years you will be happy to see how much your mom cared about your younger years. Enjoy the moment because you will never be 14 again. It makes your mom happy, so just put up with her. Think about all the kids that don't get any love from their parents. I know kids that get beaten by their parents and never get a birthday present, or even a Happy Birthday greeting.

Answer 4

i know this is soo typical but you would understand if you were a mom.. she doesn't have any bad intention its because she loves you so much. but sit her down and talk to her seriously without arguing and tell her that you really really don't want it thank her but its not what you want

~MeL~

Answer 5

Your mother probably means well, but her idea of a party is way different from yours. She wants the party to be a success, so she is inviting half the town whether you like it or not. She also has her own idea of what decorations should look like, but pink flowers are not your thing.

Doesn't it sounds like she is having the party more for herself than for you? I couldn't blame you if you feel that way. But remember, you are still young and she probably still thinks of you as her little girl. Maybe that's why she thinks she knows what is best for you. It is hard for moms to let their little girls grow up.

Even though it hurts that your mom is not paying attention to what you want, the smartest thing you could do would be to suck it up and try to have a good time. I'll bet your mom is going to a lot of trouble to put on this party for you, so it for you to criticize her would be like slapping someone in the face when they are trying to do you a favor.

It's too late to do anything about this party because the plans have already been made. So please just try to make the best of it. Part of growing up is learning to compromise and accept that you can't always have things exactly the way you want.

Next year when your birthday comes around, talk to your mom well in advance of the date, and let her know exactly how you feel. Tell her nicely that you appreciated what she did last year, but it wasn't the party you were hoping for, and you would prefer to do something different for your 15th.  See if you can come to an agreement about what kind of party you should have and who the guests should be. If she really cares about making you happy, she will listen.

Answer 6

she cant deal with the fact that your growing up your still probabaly her little princess

Answer 7

just tell her strait up.i know how you feel my mom is sooo annoying and embarrassing!!!!when i tell her something she tells the whole d**n world!!!!i think you should take the decorations down and tell her that you didnt want this and that when she invites more people to ask you first!!!!moms just dont understand!!!!  

Answer 8

that happened to my friend. just simply remove the decorations, it might be mean but shell get the idea.