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Why is my mom the way she is?

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i seriously think my mom is over stepping her boundaries with me. today my younger brother brought over a girl and my mom is telling me that they can't be left alone so i HAVE to watch over them. then as a favor i tell her its fine b/c i have no plans today (i am over 18 by the way). and this is very unexpected by the way, i didn't know anyone was coming over today. then about an hour later, she marches into my room and tells me i have to greet the girl properly so i should pretend i have to go out to the livingroom for something so that she knows i'm in the house (so they will behave with each other while my mom's gone). i agree, i walk past the girl, pause for a sec, smile and casually say hi, she says hi back. ok done good ok finished. i walk back and my mother storms into my room saying some c**p about how the girl had stood up to extend her hand to me but i just walked away. i did not even see that and i swear that didn't happen! then she starts b*tching about how i am so rude and how i shoud go back there and greet her AGAIN! i refused to do so and she just watched away insulting me. i really feel stressed out, why does she do these things?? why must she put me through so much c**p and make things more difficult then they need to be? why do i owe so much respect to some kid? right now my bro and the girl are laughing it up outside in the livingroom and i am in my room steaming from what my mom said to me. is my mom just a big control freak or what?

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  1. You're 18. Move out.


  2. If you are living in your parents house and not paying rent, then you have to follow their rules.  You should sit down with your mother and talk to her about how you feel after what she has said.  If she gives the whole "I'm the mom and your the kid" speech, then it is probably time you find a place of your own to live so you will not have to listen to her rules.

  3. ugh.  not a good situation.  i had to spy on my BIG brother once with a girl but the story doesn't go that far.  i don't really know what to tell ya.

  4. Yer i guess. no affence but maybe she doesn't realise your an adult and have the rights to make some of your own desicions now.

  5. yeah she is.

    just let it go and since your over 18 don't say you'll help her.  

  6. so whats ur mom smoking?

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