Why is my sister acting like this?

Question

My sister is 1 year older than i am, She recently got divorced. Anyways, she's always telling me that i should just get divorced, because my husband will just cheat on me someday. I understand that she's heartbroken but she's being a b**** about it.. She also keeps telling everyone how fat i got, and makes fun of me..(i've been depressed and now i'm overweight, but she doesn't know i have clinical depression) she's always compairing her kids to mine. then she tells me i'm wasting my time in school (i still have 2 yrs to go) she's on welfare, doesn't work, doesn't want to work, etc. she's depressed i can tell, cuz i know what the signs are but she's just gotten so mean, everything bothers her, my mom and brothers bug her, she wants my sister to buy a car so she can drive it. She has a myspace and she put up 2 pics of me, 1 when i was really skinny and one from now. I don't want people to look at my pics, especially those people i haven't seen in a long time. When i was young i used to get all the attention, now she acts like she's proud to be the skinny better looking one and she wants everyone to see she looks better than me. I don't get it.. Why? Also i always help her with any favors she needs, and yesterday i needed her to babysit for me, for 2 hours while i got out of the hospital from doing my clinicals but when my husband went to drop off the kids so he could go to work, she wasn't home, she didn't answer her phone until i got out of school.. My husband ended up taking the kids to his mothers house and luckily she was home to watch the kids, but when i called my sister and asked her what happened? she laughed and said, i was at the library using their computer, he should've just dropped them off there. Then one day we went to the mall together, and i went in to try some clothes on and i heard her laughing at me with my younger sister calling me fat... I got kind of pissed and it made me cry because my husband was infront of them when she was talking **** about me, i don't know why she's acting this way towards me, i've always been the one helping her.. I'm doing better financially than her, so is it that she feels threatened? or is she just a b****? what can i do,maybe i should just lose weight?

Answer 1

WOW! what a novel. it sounds like both of you are jealous of each other. both of you need to grow up and stay away from each other.

Answer 2

She is just being a hater she sees that ur life is perfect n her isn't n she want u to end up like her . She is trying to make u feel down n u given her wat she wants. Don't pay attetion to her comments as long as ur hubby don't think ur fat n luvs u 4 u don't worry  

Answer 3

i went through a similar situation with a best friend of mine well exbest friendd now and honestly the only solution i could come up with is shejealouss and the only thing she thinks she has that makes her better than u is her looks because she knows career wise andfinanciallyy shell never b you.... u should stop being selfconsciouss about your self look in the mirror everyday and tel ur self ur beautiful and after a while u believe it trust me it really works i wake up everyday now and i say to myself without looking in the mirror let her talk she seems to b really negative try to avoid her as much a possible its not healthy for u she is depressedobviouslyy and watchingbeingg happy is upsetting herunfortunatelyy but i say the best thing to do is avoid her shedefinitelyy going throughpsychologicall issues her self and maybe by her feeling she looks better than you she if brings up her confidence so sheCann find someone else... btw good luck and dontt let her bring u down

Answer 4

You shouldn't lose weight just because she said that, maybe she's just into a drugs because her husband broke up with her or maybe that's just her problem. She's a nut head I'll tell you, because she's always getting into your business and laughing that you. Tell her to get out of your life. And ask her that you want an older sister for Christmas! How can she be a mother like that?! If she's my mother, oh God. I rather kill myself. Just forget what she say about you, she just ruins your life.

btw, can I have her myspace? I wanna talk trash about her. (But you don't have, just asking ^-^)

Answer 5

your sis is jealous, she fells that he life is out of control. Misery loves company.