Why is my sister always mean to me no matter how hard I try? URGENT!

Question

She is always mean to me. I have 2 sisters. 20 and 16. I'm 12. Every time I try and talk to her she says "Cool." in a very sarcastic voice. So, I try doing that too. There was this package of meat that we like in the fridge and my sister came down to visit us in Florida and she took it out of the fridge and started eating the contents of it. I said "Don't eat it all!" because I was hungry and I wanted some and she's like "s***w off!" Then she always calls me a boyand a caveman. Then my other sister joins in but is nice to me. Then she started asking for bread and I said "Fridge." and she ignored me and then i said it again and she's like " I HEARD YOU! II'MGOING TO STARVE TO DEATH!" and It gets me so mad. She always isn't nice to me and her friends are and she gets mad at them for being nice to me but, Amanda my 20 year old sister is mostly nice to me and her friends are too!

Why is she always mean to me?

She also, insults my music and then when I am not looking she steals my CDs and imports them onto her compuuter and I tell her "I thought you hated this music" she'll go "Shut up!" and still do it

She'll steal my music and when I steal hers she gets mad at me/

But, Danielle won't do anything for me

Answer 1

maybe shes insecure!? dont mind her. donttalk to herl.as if she doesnt exist. well, shes mean because SHE is MEAN  just wait for her to be d one to talk to you first. keep your things away from her.

Answer 2

honey, i have two sisters too, one older (20) and one younger (15) trust me i know how it feels, and it really does not get much better...

my older sister is a complete jerk to me also, takes my stuff all the time and lies about it later to find it in her room! what i do is just put in my ipod and ignore her!

Answer 3

she is a teen ager is will keep doing this the best thing to do is just ignore it

Answer 4

she is 16 and at that age you don't want to hang with younger people, but your right she should be nicer to you, and the next time she does something to you ask her when exactly did you turn into this mega *****.

Answer 5

you are 12 and they think of you as a slave kid  the baby  i have the same thing  my sisters  are  38 35 30 and i am 27  and trust me it was h**l growing up. but now that we are adults we are at a diffrent level for say  they come up to me and ask me for advice and  we take vacations just the 4 of us every year  and  talk about the h**l they put me threw and we laugh about it  you sisters want a bond with you but feel you are to young for them you cant go out with them to a club or some activities due to your age and they dont want to be seen like a sitter. just let it blow over in a few years it will all pass and the key dont hold grudges  

Answer 6

Because she's a jerk, and she thinks she can get away with treating you that way because you're younger.  I would try to avoid her and stay away from her as much as possible.  Don't do the mean things she does back to her, or she'll just use it as an excuse to keep treating you that way.  Just stay away from her.