Why is my sister diffrent?

Question

ok so I'm not JEALOUS of her or anything but why is it she gets more things off her Nan than me and my brother do i like my step dads mother in law to bits its just every week we go and see her she buys my sister a brand new dress or outfit worth £20-£30 and i don't think its fair on me and my bro because we lost 3 grandparents so all we have left is my mums dad and we never see him and also since my sister has been born my mum wont talk to me about my problems like when i started my periods i had to talk to my neighbour do you think its fair me and my bro are getting pushed to one side or do you think I'm over exaggerating please be truth-full and don't say I'm selfish because i am not

Answer 1

if you want people to be truthful then you can't say, but don't say I'm selfish coz that's not fair.

i think your right but the fact is life is not fair, your sisters gran buys your sister things coz she is her blood relative, its not right that she should ignore you and your brother in-fact its cruel, but that is how it is.

your mum should tell her its not fair to give one gifts and not the other two but again it seems your parents don't care.

im with you its not fair and your step dads mum is a old cow

Answer 2

i dont think youre  selfish at all i think the feelings youre having are real and theres nothing wrong with havingthem.whydont u  try talking to your mum or stepdad about things or even your sisters nan.tell them honestly how you feel and you might be surprized by their reaction.if not you might just have to grin and bear it and try complimenting your sister on her new things and it may just make everyone realise that it is unfair on you and your brother.good luck

Answer 3

is she the oldest?

if she is then maybe because she was the first child. its always like that the older brother or sister gets more off their nan  

Answer 4

I think that the youngest get treated like this.

Answer 5

ignore her