Why is my sister so hurtful and difficult?

Question

I don't understand what is wrong with my sis. At the start of the month, I found that I was preg, we'd only just started trying. We were happy & amazed but I got the + result 9 days before AF was due. This seemed early & we were worried, had my hcg levels taken, was told I was m/c. My lil sis never seemed that excited when I told her I was prg, nor that bothered when I told her I was m/c. She soon after that told me that her and her bf r getting engaged-they have been together 1 month, but I was, naturally, I was over the moon, if this is what she wants, good for her. Since then I have been told my baby is ok, again she does not seem that interested. We have since argued b/c she was funny with me when I asked what sort of ring she'd like, in case I was asked, & again when I asked if they'd have a party. Then I told her I nearly told our mum, as I am excited for her, but DIDN'T, as it's her news. She got really bitchy. why did she tell me then? why am i not allowed to be happy for her?

Answer 1

Sounds to me like your sister is jealous of you getting all the attention.  Also sounds like she made up the whole thing about the engagement or she would be talking about it with a little more enthusiasm.

Congratulations on your baby!

Answer 2

sisters are sisters!! I have a problem w/ my sis too. we fight ALOT. I would say to just stay away from her, and dont talk to her. (or about her) then if she starts being nice to you, then you can be nice to her.

Answer 3

she is jelous because you seem to bee getting more than her and you are in a very good relationship and starting a family