Why is our relationship already so boring?

Question

Well I've been with my boyfriend for a month and it seems things are slowly getting boring and repetitive. It seems when I talk to him, we talk about the same thing. Ohh I love you and all that and what we can't see eachother again. I really do love him, but it seems he's the kind of person whose low key and doesn't really talk or do anything new. I'm that kind of person though. What can I do to make this relationship exciting? Also, I am not planning on having s*x or anything in that manner anytime soon. Btw I'm 16 and he's 17.

Answer 1

most boys r boring b/c there's really nuttin 4 them 2 talk 2 us about unless we bring up a topic. talk him more about what he likes so then he'll start 2 open up

Answer 2

you need to communicate... boys are naturally boring, you can do your part by having variety but not to much dont make him think that u are two faced.

Answer 3

You may not want to hear this....but if things are getting repetitive after only a month.....that doesnt seem good, maybe you two just aren't truely compatible.

You're 16, you may not want to hear this, but in all likelyhood, you two will not end up together, be ready to face reality.

In my opinion, teens should not have boyfriends/girlfriends, they should date, see multipule people in a month, getting tied down too young is not good, it leads to more advanced relationships too soon.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

i have found out on my own, that spending more time apart from a significant other makes you more apt to talk about a variety of things when you finally see each other again, and it also makes him realize he misses you a lot more than he thought he would.

it worked for me, maybe you could try it?

good luck. :]

Answer 6

why si it boring? because your 16!!

Answer 7

If you're really in love with him, them you'll talk to him on how to improve you're relationship.

If you guys are too different them you could always break up.

Answer 8

you both need to have different hobbies so that you something to talk about,so of you go by yourself.take care

Answer 9

If he's "low key and doesn't talk or do anything new" and you're "that kind of person" then I hate to say it, but the relationship is doomed. It isn't going to work out, especially if you're bored after a month. Save yourself real heartbreak and break it off now. Sorry if it sounds rude or mean but it's the truth.