Why is "Social Proof" less effective at getting what you want out of women than - "love, kindness and respect"

Question

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Answer 1

What is "social proof"? If you mean simple "truth", just write that. There's no gain in dressing it up as a clever concept.

Unlike you I don't try get what I want out of women, I just live alongside women. I understand some people have an alley cat's view of how the world works, but I'm not an alley cat.

Answer 2

Because women are emotional creatures.

Answer 3

"social proof" is more effective for certain woman, and "love, kindness and respect" is more effective for other women. I suspect that you prefer the women who prefer the "social proof," so you therefore think that more women respond to it. No, it's just that the women YOU prefer tend to respond to it. If such behavior on their part angers  you or turns you cynical, then seek out women who respond to "love, kindness and respect" instead--there are PLENTY of them out there! However, you might have barriers to finding those women accepting of you, because  your negative, cynical attitude is going to turn those women off, since it demonstrates a lack of respect for women. Genuinely kind and respectful men don't talk about ways they can be most effective at "getting what you want out of women." So women no doubt pick up on your attitude that women are shallow and regard "social proof" more highly than "love, kindess, and respect," and respond negatively--except for the shallow women, who have likely realized that s*x is the most effective way to get what they want out of men. For these reasons, I suggest you work on your attitude, and work off your hostility to certain types of women, as it may be impacting your relationships with other women who are not that way.