Why is s*x with the same person sometimes sooo much better than other times?

Question

What is it that makes you have AMAZING s*x with your regular partner sometimes and other times the sensations just aren't as intense?

Answer 1

Everything plays a factor in that.  

If your too tired, or have too much on your mind, too many problems... etc.

Your mood is really what makes the difference.

When you feel s**y and your having a great day or  night....  you feel beautiful and things go from there.

Answer 2

Sometimes your head just isn't in the game, so to speak.  It's the same reason that the best athletes in the world occasionally have an 'off' day.  You aren't focused, paying complete attention, whatever.

Answer 3

I suppose it's the mood you're in.  THere are moments when i'm so horny i could s***w a tree, my wife will feel the same way, so we sometimes tease the moment so much we can't take it anymore and have mindblowing s*x.  THEN there are moments where we've worked all day, tired, and so when we have s*x it still feels great but it's not as intense.  THen there are also moments where we're not in the mood, so we just have 's*x' cause it's somethin to do or it's a relaxing moment, not as intense but it did what it needed to do.

Most the time we plan the amazing s*x, wait a few weeks, tease with no finish, lots of foreplay before we do it, or whatever gets us off to that moment.  We even watched a porno, or make one and watch it.

So it depends on the mood and condition you're in.