Why is she acting like this?? Does she like me in your opinion??

Question

Ok i know this girl whom i've known my whole life. She is beautiful,funny,smart etc. A few months ag i tried asking her out and i sent a bunch of things to her for valentine's day,but she turned me down. The last few times we have hung out and i know she is interested in me( don't ask how i can tell my body language and the things she does as kicking me,says she gets jealous when i talk to girl and i've had a few people tell me that she is interested in me ) but i don't know why she is not saying a complete yes to going out with me. She will txt me saying she is out with her Ex doing things. I know she wants 2 say yes,but a few people told me that she is unsure of herself,myself,and her Ex and there are alot of things going on through her mind right now. She is 18 and i am 19. They said that she likes me,but doesn't realize it as of yet. What do you think?? Please nothing negative or rude. Why is she like this and do you think she likes me???

Answer 1

Maybe she likes you as a friend, and doesn't want to s***w that up.

What are your intentions if you go out with her?

Why don't you ask her out as a friend, tell her it will be totally platonic, you just want an opportunity to spend time with her.

MAKE SURE, (if you say that), THAT YOU DON"T TOUCH HER, NO HUG, NO KISS, I suggest you don't shake hands at the end of the evening, otherwise, she think you were manipulating her.

If you plan to take the relationship to the next level, you'll need to be upfront and clear about it, (I'm interested in you as more than a friend, I don't want any confusion about that)

For now, she's not ready for anything other than friendship from you.

Luck

Answer 2

just give her some time im sure she will come around

Answer 3

Well, she probably does like you but is scared of things not working out and your friendship being awkward for the rest of your life..

And she is also probably scared.  She probably doesn't know what she's feeling and is scared to be more than friends..  

I would have an open and honest discussion and just tell her you're confused why she said no but acts interested..  Don't try to rush things, everything will work out if it's meant to be :]