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Why is she acting like this? beware.... long story?

by Guest55796  |  earlier

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I started working at this resturant recently and their is this girl there that kind of was looking at me alittle when first seeing me but kept a straight face. she tried to have come off as feisty/attitude to me and i put her in her place immediately . One day she had to train me for my position, and within 5 mins asks me if i had a g/f and i said what? why are u asking me that? and she replies "becuz were gonna be working together, we have to get to know each other. calling her out on her bull ****, i said what does my personal life have to do with the job. then we flirted alittle while and i kept it real that i dont want a g/f and stuff. and she mentioned after that, that she is talking to a guy at work for like 4 months and i say "wow 4 months and ur not going out yet" lol. then she mimics my earlier comment about living to be single and says she likes to be that way too.

i find out she likes the same type of movies i do and ask her to watch some and she pulled the "i dont know you that well thing" and then i thought. thats how people get to know each other is by going out.

Later on when i was about to leave, she put a customer on hold just to say bye to me. a day later, i asked her whats up for her weekend and she said nothing. then i said ill call you if im available and she said "ummmm thats disrespectful" (referring to employees) im like bullshit. ur were romantically talking to one of the cooks at the job for 4 months but its disrepectful to ask for ur number. then i said ill talk to you at the staff meeting and we can talk there alittle, then she said "we can talk but theres no guarantee well hang out or anything"

today we had a staff meeting and i completely didnt even look at her. (not out of anger, just nothingness).

A few days later we worked on the same shift, she worked in the back and gave me the orders that i rung up on the register, the runner to speak. I didnt have any orders to do and it was slow that night, and i started mingling with all my new employees friends alittle and joking with the customers at out bar area, and didnt pay her much attention unless it was about the job. since i knew she was a full of c**p.

When i tried to help her to her orders, since i had nothing to do. she rudely tells me to go up front and let her to her job, just being a ***** like every told me she was. So i say why are getting such an attitude since im helping you, and she went on alittle then i laughed and walked off, continuing to me myself and mingle with everyone.

For some reason she kept butting into my conversation after talking to people. for instance ill be talking to someone about changing my schedule and when me and the person part ways, she jumps in and says "you were talking about changing ur schedule" and i replied "i was talking to that person about that (not you)"

anyways, she caught an attitude again with me again when i was packing food for my order, since i was bored, and was amazed a person could be rude when just helping them. then i told her " if you wanna be a b*tch, atleast for it to be fashionable, you have to be very attractive, so its just wrong, not cool, and she heard it and brushed it off, and i laughed and walked off to mingle with the employees again.

i was close to the chef table and i handed her the box of food for my order and she got mad all over again, since she was the packer. and started bitching again, then i just said "yo chill the **** out, you dont know me, im not one of ur stupid *** friend, dont **** with me" and i said shut ur fat *** up finally and walked off. the whole back room heard it was stunned since the new guy (me) just shut down the ***** of the job in front of everyone.

She didnt get out of line with me again that day. a few days later she tred to be nice to me and make small comments to get me to reply to her, even trying to say hi to me when she first came into work. But i just ignored her completely unless it was about the job.

She then asked me if everything was okay a few times. then even went as far to say i had a chip on my shoulder, complain that i was ignoring her completely (which i wasnt unless about job) and i replied "thats ur perception, thats fine." not even looking at her and smiling (since i dont respect her).

WHAT THE HECK IS UP WITH THIS CHICK AND THIS SITUATION?

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  1. she seem like drama so u should do what u keep on doing now... ignore her


  2. You and her cannot be a couple. You can't even communicate! Look for someone else to flirt with.

  3. She is playing hard to get. Ignore her, she sounds like she is bi polar.

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