Why is she copying me? ?

Question

Okay so I have this friend and we’re really close but it seems as though she’s copying my some of my behavior, which is not a good thing since I got issues. So I have this thing if people act different around me suddenly then I think they hate me. And usually I ask them. Now my friend is doing it also, I don’t want her to copy my behavior. Why is she copying it? And how do I stop it?

Only mature answers please

Answer 1

lol im going through the same thing. Well my best friend hangs out with me alot. And Im a really weird/funny person and ive been shes been copying some of the things i do. Like for example- I hit people (slap their shoulder) when im super duper excited... Now shes doing it!

I speak in an English accent when im answering a question. Same again she does it too. There are several reasons: 1) She admires you and looks up to you as a romodel. 2) Hangs out with you a little too much- for that you might want to think of balancing your time out..so she doesnt get too attached. 3) Shes a really good actress and goes around copying people? lol just kidding about the last one...

Maybe you can ask her or confront her, if it is bothering you. Or just leave it alone and wait for another, cooler person, to come along.

Answer 2

how mature is it to say that you got issues, you say that, and instantly your asking for some smart remarks. I think that maybe she looks up to you, and notices that other people do too.  

Answer 3

She probally maybe has some self esteem issues, or thinks your cool, or many other reasons. But to get the right one, just ask her straight out. Be sensitive when you ask her though, because keep in mind it might be alittle hard for her to say to you, or send her an email.

Answer 4

Just a thought...

Maybe she feels like you two are growing more distant. Maybe there's something in her head making her think you two are as tight of friends any more. Maybe she's thinking you don't like her as much, so I'm thinking if that is the case she may be copying you to be more like you. I mean it's possible, if she was feeling distant with you and she was upset about it, perhaps she thinks by being like you you'll want to be tighter friends.

It's just a different possible idea

Hope this helps

Answer 5

oh em gee my friend is like that and she doesnt relizse it. i guess its cause since ur close shes used to how u act and she just does it with out knowing ya it gets annoying