Why is she doing this ?

Question

She is a few years younger than me..

Every time ....I have found her staring..and its not like its her natural habit.. she goes on and makes it pretty obvious that she likes me..she

is fidgety..nervous around me.. stares hard and long.. and fidgety as in not uncomfortably.. but fidgety as .. in my dream boy is here...now what do I do..

just now I messaged her..(i got the number from a friend of hers)..

asked her how she is doing etc etc..where does she work etc etc..

and then asked her whether she would want to have some lunch tomorrow....

all other messages were fine..except when it came to "where is her office? and would she want to have some lunch tomorrow"...

no answers.. *blip*.. completely off..and no more communication

Why is she behaving this way.. shes 21..and not really experienced in relationships.. .. i would have thought that by 21..you at least know how to say 'no' to a guy..

btw.. yesterday saw her at the movies..she was with her friends..and was hiding and looking...

why is she doing this ? rather behaving this way ?

Should I go for her?

Answer 1

Women  can never make up their minds

Answer 2

How much younger? You should go for her if you want her, but if she's really inexperienced and you hurt her she could turn into a total psycho. This is because she doesn't yet know how to handle her relationship emotions, its always worse the first time. If you are interested, I suggest you go slow and really get to know her. Don't be afraid to scare her a little bit at first, she'll get used to you, just keep it light.

Answer 3

haha you asked this question before didnt youu ?

or was it something else

whatever

but idk maybe her phone fell in the toilet

or is broken

dont just think she turned it off.

Answer 4

it sounds like she likes you a lot but is probably hiding something (a boyfriend). if not, she is just shy.  i say go for it.

Answer 5

maybe she is exrteamly paranoid or has some other mental case at any rate if it means enough to u then then just come up and talk to her. or just ask her friends or somthing like that. see wuts up

Answer 6

She seems painfully shy.

It may be that she doesn't know how to say 'yes'.

Answer 7

You should've asked her for her number and not her friend; it's pretty creepy that she didn't even give you her number and yet you're messaging her on it.

Answer 8

If you assume she's new at this dating thing, your assumptions may be right. Could it be that she's one of the rare gals that's still a virgin at age 21? Or she could just be immature? Maybe she's aware of physical/sexual pressures that exist in the dating world. That kind of stuff made me nervous when I was around her age.

Maybe she's a little shy or just trying to be playful. Just take it easy, and maybe suggest meeting w/ a small group of friends somewhere. Let her pick where to meet and she may seem more comfortable w/ that. Just take into consideration that you're probably way ahead of her in dating experience. Think back to when you first jumped into the dating scene.

Or, here's another scenario... if she knows you're trying to pursue her, maybe she's playing hard to get. I've been guilty of this myself. When I knew a guy was into me, I would act like I wasn't interested just to see how serious his intentions were. Then, by the time I came around and wanted to pursue the guy, he wised up and moved on.

Cool your heels for a while, then maybe that will spike her interest. But don't put your life on hold for her too long. "There are other fish in the sea."

Answer 9

She seems interested and yet afraid. You don't say how old you are so if you are much older than her, maybe she is afraid of the age gap. Try to befriend her first, show her that you like her as a friend and not just as a date.  And give her time as it looks like she would like to have more of you but she's yet unsure. Good luck

Answer 10

i say u should give this girl a try. it sounds like she really likes you. if you give her a try and end up liking her back she could be the one for you.

Answer 11

i think you should go for her only if you like her to. dont drag her along and go out for the sake of going out with her. Shes shy... jus dont worry, you should be glad she likes you =] hey mayb her phone ran outta creddit  when she was messeging you?....could happen..