Why is she like this???

Question

I have this friend who used to be my best friend not anymore...well she is always saying that her dad gave her thousands and thousands of pounds when he died and that she is pretty rich her self because of what her dad gave her when her dad died.

I my self don't even have a dad and I'm very poor my self i been with the same mobile phone for nearly 5 years now, and every time she sees it she takes the pi ss out of me. I dont say anything but I'm starting to get angry, as in she takes the pis s because I'm poor..why is she like this???

thank you.

Answer 1

You need to talk to her about her behavior and how its hurting you. If she is truly your friend she will stop. She is probably still a little hurt from losing her dad and doesn't know how to handle it so she is acting like a rich brat.  

Answer 2

She sound like she is too up herself tell her how you dont like it when she makes you feel small if she still does it she isnt a true friend if that happened to me i would rip her head off that must be annoying to put up with tell her the truth if she does it again dont hang about with her.

Answer 3

well honestly, I think she knows you will be friends no matter

what.... and that makes you an easy person to take out her

saddness on because you'll always be there.

If I were you, I would sit down and have a conversation about

how you feel when she does this to you. Do not ask things like,

"why do you do this or that," because it sounds accusatory and

it will make her shut down and totally ignore anything that you

say. try using an "I Feel....." statement. ex.:"I feel upset when you

say mean things to me".... try using these kind of statements....

good luck.... I hope you understand that she may be having

difficulty with her fathers death and is probably lashing out

on you because you were in her life before and after he died.

good luck!!!! :)

Answer 4

oh hun, shes just trying to get over her dad dieing

Answer 5

rich people are like this

Answer 6

She is a mean *****. Don't listen to her. Move on honey!

Answer 7

your not poor, ur normal. just take the p**s out of her back or ignore her. shes obviously a very material girl and the fact that shes spending her inheritance money on mobile phones just proves that shes a t**t. most people would put it away for something decent eg. house in the future, car, university etc. just ignore it shes a t**t

Answer 8

She's trying to be like the illusive "rich/popular girl" and - like every "rich/popular girl" - she needs a victim, which just happens to be you.

Next time she does something you do like, move away from her touch and tell her that materialistic things will get her no where and that you'd really like her to stop because you don't need someone that can't keep their mouth shut about your situation.

Answer 9

Why torture yourself by trying to hang on to this person ??

True friends do not act like that, let her stew in her own boasting juice, and move on so that you will eventually find a friend that is real.

Answer 10

She is like this because she has money and you don't - she is so far up her own bum she can't see

Just drop her like a brick and move on with other friends. Tell her to get lost - you don't have time for spoilt little semi rich brats

Answer 11

she's just trying to bug you. maybe she hates you. or than maybe she just dosnt get it. tell her you know your poor and she doesnt need to point it out.

Answer 12

she is just cutting you down to make herself feel good.

she has low self-esteem.