Why is she like this

Question

my mom won't let me go to my friend's house just cuz he's 20 and in college....I'm 15 I'm not a baby he's a nice guy what's the big deal?? she let us go to the mall and the movies and out to dinner once reluctantly but now she says I can't ever talk to him again why not???

And she got all pissed cuz he sent me a letter tellinng me that he loves and cares for me...she shouldn't have read it

Answer 1

she doesn't want you to grow up in a way may be something from her child hood is geting to her so she protectting you

Answer 2

Your mother has been 15 herself and is now a lot older, she knows that 20yr old boys only want a 15yr old in their house for s*x. So listen to your mother, please

Answer 3

i'm 15 and even i think that its kinda pushing it to wanna go hang out at a 20 year olds house alone...and don't get me wrong i'm not some girl that doesn't know how to have fun but its probably for your own safety. i think you should stick to like hanging out a public places like the mall and resturants. that way if he tries anything shady, its not like you'll be alone and no one would come to your rescue

Answer 4

Get over it. Wait till you have your own children.  

Answer 5

Well she is like that because she is older and wiser and knows that a 20 year old guy does not hang out with a 15 year old girl for the great conversation or company.

Answer 6

Your Mom is saying no, because she knows that this nice boy as nice he may be...wants to have s*x with you.  Which by the way would be considered statutory rape.  For your own sake and his freedom...stay away from him.  Your to yound to be with such an old guy.  Hang out with guys your own age.

Answer 7

Yeah... all guys are nice before you go over to their house... He wants a little something something, weather you want to believe it or not. ... your only 15????

What's wrong with this guy that he can't get a woman his own age??????

Answer 8

Sorry But The only time I almost had s*x before I married my husband was when I went to a nice guys house to hang out at 15.

Your mom is saying no because she knows better than you do.

Answer 9

Even if he doesn't just want to sleep with you (hey, it's possible) she is right to be concerned.  Even if you did find the one 20 year old guy out of a million that just wants to sit around and talk or rub your feet or something, there are plenty others who are creeps that would take advantage of you.

Even if you don't understand it, she's acting--overall--in your best interests.

If you and he really are great for each other and respectful of each other, then the thing to do is to prove it to her by keeping in touch, not engaging in any activity that she thinks is too much of a risk, and learning to appreciate each other on a level that isn't physical.

If that can happen, well, time will pass and you and he can be together in a few short years.  In the meantime you made a good friend and learned that your mother cares about your safety.  And those are two very good things.

Answer 10

I'm 18, and 20 is the perfect age for a guy for me. 15 is way too young, you realize he only wants one thing and when he gets that, your mother doesnt want to see you hurt when he leaves you. Any 20 year old who wants to "hang out" with a 15 year old is a pedophile, actually yes he is, it is illegal to do anything sexually-kissing, touching. 15 year olds don't look the same as 20 year olds, or 17/18 year olds for that matter, a lot goes on in between then. I am GLAD your mother won't let you do anything with him anymore. YAY! go mommy!