Why is she like this to me?

Question

Ok. Me and my cousin hang out together, but sometimes shes just horrible.

This morning, My friend was top one in my friends list on myspace. So My cousin asks me to put her in front and be 1.

Next, on Habbo, I spent all night trying to get HC. Then when I am and she sees, she says "Why didn't you get me anything?" I go "Because I got it for me" She goes "Im your cousin, you need to get me stuff!"

:P

Then, she says I take all her friends on Habbo, because they talk to me special. Like my friend went "Hey Lexxay <3" And she just said Hi to my cousin.

And she always says I have better stuff. And when shes mad, she'll cancel EVERYTHING we planned. :P And everytime I try to talk to her, she says gtg bye.

Why is she like this? Its annoying.

Answer 1

She is manipulating you.  Don&#039;t allow her to control you.  Give her only what you are willing to give and draw the line where you are stretching beyond what you want.  This will take persistence.  She may get really weird.  For example, she may threaten to not hang out with you.  If so, you say, &quot;I don&#039;t want you to go away totally, but I can&#039;t always do what you want me to, so if you chose to go, it is your choice, but that is not what I want.&quot;  Perhaps you can start by writing her a letter or e-mail to break the ice and get the ball rolling.