Why is she mean and nasty to me?

Question

Ok this girl in high school I know. I have done nothing to her. She would pick on me in ceramics class and all and laugh and make jokes about me. She would then tell me to shut the f up and all sorts of mean things. I am a nice guy and do not really understand her actions. She says she hates me and knows I am trying to be nice to her. Why? I have always just been nice to her.

Answer 1

Well, unfortunately she's probably a miserable person inside....so she picks on others and is mean to make herself feel better. It's quite sad, but true.

Just ignore her the best you can.

Answer 2

she's jealous of u

Answer 3

This is not really a health question but in a way it is -- a mental health question.

No one in school needs to tolerate a bully, whether it is a boy or a girl.  If your school has a school councilor, write them a note (or write a note to the school principal) saying you have been subjected to bullying and ask them if the school has a policy to get it stopped.  You can mention that you have always been nice to the person in question and, although the person is a girl and you are a guy, you know that 'bullying is bullying'.  Mention also that you feel a person has no right to tell you to 'shut the f--k up' when you have done nothing offensive.

The senior school staff gets paid to sort out problems, including problems like these.  Don't be afraid to tell them politely you want to concentrate on your studies without being bullied.

Answer 4

yeh maybe she fancies you,

ignore her see what she does then

Answer 5

That happened to me in 9th grade, and I never understood why the girls or guys were mean to me, either. You just need to ignore it, since they really don't matter to you, even though it's obvious that some just like to be extremely ignorant for no apparent reason.

My honest opinion, I think that girl likes you, but she's being nasty because she has no other way to express herself. Most of the time, that's why they're mean anyway.

Answer 6

Just ignore her. Some people are just idiots, it's their personality.

Or she fancies you :) (I highly doubt it though, but i'm using Hey Arnold as my reference)

Answer 7

She might like you...Women are weird. Ignore her and then see how she acts.

Answer 8

she likes u

Answer 9

Obviously, she's a very unpleasant person.    Don't waste your time on her; she's not worth it.

Answer 10

Answer her back and start taking the p**s out of her, see how she likes it.

Don't let her get away with it, embarrass her in front of her friends, make HER feel small.

Answer 11

Find another girl to beat her *** and let her know it's from you and if she keeps messing with you you'll have someone do it again.

Answer 12

Because that is life.

Not everyone is nice.

Answer 13

just ignore her and act like she is crazy for going out of her way to be mean to you.. cuz she is

Answer 14

She either secretly likes you, OR she has a mental problem.  My guess is that she secretly likes you and the only way she can talk to you is if she's picking on you.