Why is she so complicated???

Question

I will be very glad if you read everything and tell me what do you think please Ok everything started on february, I had seen her a couple of times at school but never talked to her, until one day that we had speech class together and we ended up in the same group, we started talking just as classmates, she gave me her fun number just to see if I had one question about the work, when valentines arrived I sended her a whole bunch of roses because she had told me some days before that she loved roses, b4 that we use to txt every day, but after that she stopped talking and txting me, she wouldn't even look at me in class, I was so dissapointed but I didn't cared because I didn't had feelings for her, but two weeks later she started to txt again, and we kept talking thru out the whole summer where I inveted her to be my prom date at first she agreed but later she cancel suppostly bc of her parents, but it was a lie bc one of her best friends told me, well before prom when she cancel on me, I told her that I had a surprise for her (I was going to take her to the highest place in austin and ask her out the night of the prom) but guess what she cancel again but later she asked me what the surprise was and I told her where is was going to take her and decided to tell her what I felt for her, she told me that I was so sweet but she wasn't interested in no one at the moment, but well during the summer we talk for the whole summer, and one day I decided to ask her on a date again, well I told her that we should do something and she told me "consider it a date" but later she told me to call it hang around time, since that moment I knew she liked me, but in this days she sended me a pic of her and she told me what did I think I told her that she looked beatiful, and later she stop talking to me, since that day we haven't talked, I don't see her at school because now I go to college and she is a senior,

If this help all of our conversation where either by txt or myspace, because she acted way different at school, she wouldn't even looked at me a skool!

Why would she tell me to go on a date with her and then call it hang around time?

Do you think she got issues problems?

Answer 1

Sorry dude, but I think you want it to be more than it was.  I think this girl may like you as a friend, but not for a boyfriend.  My advice just treat her like a normal friend and back off on trying to push a romance on her.

In time her feelings towards you may change, but only if you back off and don't force the issue.

This is personal experience talking.

Answer 2

Hi.

My personal opinion. We, girls can indeed be complicated at times.

My guess. She is not sure about her feelings for you. She might not be head-over-heel in love with you and at the same time, she doesn't have a dislike for you. She might simply just feel comfortable being with you.

There is also a possibility that she has someone else in mind for consideration besides you.

Or... It could be that she's just playing "Hard-To-Catch".

- Celina Teo -

Answer 3

dude, you must know, some girls, are just so flirty, hard to get, sweet, friendly, or sometimes, they like to test themselves and see how beautiful they are,, thats life

Answer 4

Sending roses was a BIG MISTAKE. Too early in the game. You have consistently come on strong and keep making the same mistake of immediately wanting her to be your girl. Back off. Give her time. If an idea comes up and you two go for a coffee stop acting like it is the last date you'll ever have as you are now getting married. You are making a classic mistake of blowing the friendship with this girl way out of proportion.