Why is she so mean to me girl troubles ?

Question

Ok this girl in high school I know. I have done nothing to her. She would pick on me in ceramics class and all and laugh and make jokes about me. She would then tell me to shut the f up and all sorts of mean things. I am a nice guy and do not really understand her actions. She says she hates me and knows I am trying to be nice to her. Why? I have always just been nice to her.

Today in tv productions, my friend and I were doing some partner work, and she comes and says nobody cares what I think and that I am different than everyone else but not in a good way and that I should not even look at her or talk to her. What the heck, I mean I can look at whoever I want you know.

And other girls at school notice my professional behavior, and they act do I have a girlfriend a lot..... why do they want to know?

Answer 1

Honestly, it's a part of life. There will always be someone who will have something negative to say about you and your work. You have to grow some tough skin and not let it bother you. The best thing is to ignore her, like not even acknowledge her existence if she's around or even talk to her. It will make her more mad and she'll prolly yell but she'll look stupid in the end when she's yelling at someone who won't even pay her any attention.  

Answer 2

everybody has one enemy. u jus cant le t*t get to u. it mite be hard but jus try. you should try n ignore her cuz she sounds like a b!t*h. they ask if u have a girlfriend cuz they like u. kinda obvious dontcha think...well i do. hope i helped

Answer 3

She acts this way because she is a Bit*h! Yay problem solved!

Answer 4

SHE HAS PROBLEMS AT HOME, AND COMES TO SCHOOL TO TAKE IT OUT ON SOMEONE.  NO HAPPY COMFORTABLE PERSON BEHAVES LIKES THIS, JUST TRY AND IGONRE HER, STAY OUT OF HER WAY!  

Answer 5

Telling on a bully won't do anything.

You need to stop being a nice guy, because it gets you nowhere.  People need to earn you being nice to them.  If they haven't, then be neutral to them.  if they are mean like that girl, you get mean back.

girls are MUCH more self conscious about themselves.  That gives you an advantage.  Warn her, yell at her.  If she doesn't stop, find something wrong with her.  If you can't find something wrong with her, attack her weight, that always works with women.  Just avoid her, and to the best of your ability, don't start anything with her.

Actually, warn your teachers, tell them if she keeps pushing you, you will insult her back, because she could use the sexual harassment bullshit if you do argue back.  So give them warning, let them know what she is doing, and if she doesn't stop, you will retaliate on your own terms.

Answer 6

I'm not sure how this qualifies as "men's health"...

Anyway, your writing is kind of hard to understand, honestly...

I suppose all I can tell you is why would you insist on being nice to someone who clearly doesn't like you? Just ignore her or treat her the same way she treats you. Besides, who the heck is here to tell you nobody cares about what you say? Just tell her to go straight to h**l and forget about it.

Oh, and while you're at it, you might want to rephrase the whole "professional behavior" thing. It just sounds lame.

Answer 7

Well have you ever actually been friends with this girl instead of just "knowing" her?

Answer 8

Go to the school office and find out if they have a policy on school bullying.  Tell them you are being subjective to verbal abuse using foul language by another student.

Find out how to file a complaint.  She owes you an apology and you have the right to hear nothing (nothing means nothing) from her in the future.  She needs to keep her mouth shut around you and you have a right to request this officially -- that she has no communication with you from now on.

Bullying is not to be tolerated.