Why is she still pissed off

Question

monday night me and my mom had a arguement

aboutsleeping outside over my friends house tuesday night

so tuesday mornng i ask her if im still alowed to go even though i agreed to sleep inside

and i like hadd to go we were hanging out with this guy i like

and shes like i dont think you should be allowed but if you father says yes

so my dad already said yes monday night

soi went

and my dads not mad at me

but he says me mom still is

ugg how do i get out of this

cuz i didnt even do anything wrong

Answer 1

I have a 14 YO, and it's just the fact that your dad said yes, and kinda went over your mom's head. I have it happen all the time.

Answer 2

tell her u didnt do nethin wrong

Answer 3

Ur wrong  

Answer 4

your not telling the whole story. and dont stress. mothers cant be mad at you forever

Answer 5

tell ur dad to straighten it out for you

Answer 6

She's probably mad at you and at your father.  You - because you pitted your dad and her against each other.  Your dad - because he didn't present a united front.  

Sweetie, I used to do the same thing with my parents.  My mom was the heavy and my dad the softie (plus, I SOOOO had my daddy wrapped around my little finger).  From now on, so that you don't cause this kind of conflict, listen to your mom and don't pit your parents against each other cause it can cause conflict in their relationship (which they need to work on that themselves and that has NOTHING to do with you - okay?).  

Apologize to your mom and tell her that you're sorry for going to your dad about spending the night at your friend's house.  You may just have to wait it out.  She'll eventually get over it, but I don't know for how long.

Good luck, sweetie!

Answer 7

Then asked her what's wrong and tell her to tell you what is it that you did wrong but be nice and don't scream at her cuz that will only make her more angry.

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Answer 8

just tell them it's an important night 4 u and you really need to be there

Answer 9

idk ur not telling everything

Answer 10

ask heeer why

Answer 11

You should try to convince your mom that she can trust you didn't do anything wrong.That's your best option for now

Answer 12

Ignore your mom.

Shes just pouting because she didnt get her way.

Answer 13

She'll get over it.

Answer 14

Well, it seems like you got in the middle of a disagreement between your mom and dad, so she's probably pissed about that.

Did you intentionally play them against each other? If so, then you had a part in it too. I'm guessing you put pressure on your mom who wasn't sure about how your dad felt about it and hadn't had a chance to discuss it with him yet. Not a nice thing to do.

So, yes, you probably did do something wrong in making it all about you. Next time, be more adult about it and try to see it from their viewpoint. You might tell your mom you're sorry too.

Answer 15

Since you don't even know how to communicate in proper or complete sentences I assume you're not mature enough to be spending the night at your friends. Definitely not mature enough to be hanging out with this guy.  You should listen to your mom until you can grow up a lot more.  It will save you from a lot of regrets later on.  You said you "didn't even do anything wrong".  Yes you did.  You should have listened to your mother and respected her decision.  Instead you argued because you assumed you knew as much or more than she does.  You don't.  Be wise and learn from your mother.  The mistakes you avoid due to learning from her will make life richer.

Answer 16

I'll bet there is more to this story and you're not telling.