Why is she trying to contact me?

Question

She was my first girlfriend, and she dumped me. =[ Even now I'm 90% convinced I was in love with her. I mean, no one else though she was pretty (and I kinda see why) but I honestly and truly though she was beautiful. She took me back and dumped me multiple times. One time we only lasted 15 minutes ! Yes, that's how sad it was! So, I decided that enough was enough, and I cut off all contact with her. I haven't spoken to her in about three and a half months. Now, all of a sudden, it's the other way around! SHE'S trying to contact ME! Granted, she might just want to be friends, but even then... what should I do? Should I give her another chance? Should I accept her friend request (on Myspace), and then not talk to her?

Answer 1

accept her friend request and talk to her. Try to work it out with her and see what happen. You said you have feelings for her, so accept her back as a friend.

Answer 2

thats not love.

Answer 3

umm to me it seems like(because you said she isnt all that pretty) she thought she could just take advantage of a guy that actually wants her and now that you dont want her she feels lik S**t and wants you back so she can be loved again i dont know just dont talk to her that wouldnt be a healthy relationship

Answer 4

Depends on what you want to do. If your just except her friend request and not talk to her, then why add her as a friend in the first place?

But something tells me you shouldn't add her.

Answer 5

If you want to, add her, but if she tries to make any moves or whatever, or flirts with you, just say you want to be friends.

Answer 6

Good for YOU for cutting off the contact! She did not KNOW what she wanted, and she tried keeping you on a STRING. I think it is BEST to just continue NOT contacting her, because that is the best way to heal. She's only trying to contact you because NOW she realizes that you won't play her games anymore, and she wants what she can't have. (Typical girl). Keep on doing what you're doing, before she plays with your heart once again.

Answer 7

Accept her request and then if she talks to you talk to her back.

But don't get back together with her.