Why is that all the Black guys one my campus go out with only white girls?

Question

Hi, I just started college and it's a diverse campus it pretty much has everything, but there is still a mostly white majority. A thing that bothers me is that all of the Black guys only seem to date white girls even the ugly ones..It kills me some of them try so hard to get with a Black guy...It makes me sick.I have no problem with interracial dating but some of these white girls are ignorant they ask me some stupid questions about Black men and stuff. It shouldn't matter, you should like someone because they're them not for their race. The Black guys are worse, they'll date any type of white girl as long as shes white even if shes a nasty s**t...Even the school s**t who is I don't mind Black guys dating the good white girls who have manners, class, and are pretty. But it seems tha Black mens standrads are different when it comes to Black women and White women. Black women have to be a dime basically. You have to have everything a nice body, nice face, nice hair, smarts, personality, not have a reputation. But if you're white, there are some Black guys who will automatically go out with you..Ever since I got there, none of the Black guys has asked me out or noticed me....I know I'm not ugly, I'm a beautiful and confident person. I have a nice body, I work out, I always have nice clothes, and I style my hair on a regular basis....It's funny, when I go back to my neighborhood which happens to be predominately Black I get all types of stares, honks, and guys following me and trynna ask me out...But when I get to school, I'm not getting the same attention...My mom told me not to go out wiht these guys because most of them are goons, perverts, and up to no good...I agree with her...My family wouldn't approve of me going aout with some of these guys areound here...He has to be in college or have a really good career..

Answer 1

OMG! Finally, someone who shares my views on this!

Don't worry about it hun...Those Black guys are stupid idiots who only date White girls because most are very easy & it gives them status amongst other Black guys. I too have no problem with interracial dating, but I do not think you should date someone simply because they are of a certain race. I am a half Black, half Italian female who has come to notice that it is not just Black guys who seem to worship White girls..It's basicallt every non White guy. It's so annoying! Personally, I think us ethnic girls are way better then some easy,dead fish White girl who lets her man walk all over her.  

Answer 2

You need to make up your mind. Do all black men prefer white girls or not? And if you was as "beautiful" as you claim to be you would not be so jealous and trying to pretend otherwise.

Answer 3

Cuz they get that Good Luvin. The "OH" face :-0

Answer 4

Maybe they treat them better?

But in the usa most women treat men like dirt so I do not have a good reply for your question.  

Answer 5

Those guys are sellouts.  Hispanic guys are the same way too.

Answer 6

ya know i actually can relate to you as another black woman who has notice this. its always places like College and regular schools that a black dude wont even look at you, but its places like your neighborhood, store, bus station, they are the first to grab your attention and try to ask you out. that's pretty weird if you ask me. i have seen black and white couples all around campus too.

i think its a nice thing that people are dating outside their race, because they are getting to know and understand that everyone is human regardless. i have no problem with it. though i DO have a big problem when black men try to say that white girls are better than us because they are not ghetto. yes i've heard this before. that's just like saying i'm ghetto even tho this dude has never met me. so  they like white women because its their taste, or they simply try to avoid black women because of ignorance.

Answer 7

Ok Ayita. Ive seen you before and you arent ugly ok (not g*y in any way) i too attend secondary school but not a big university. You just started school girl. And i hate to agree with "Professor Sweetback" but I do. You have to not let this worry you. You are at school to get an education. NOT to be find a man. And besides, havent anyone told you? When you go LOOKING for a man those are the bad ones gal. My advice to you, don't sweat it. College is about being diverse. You will meet others. Just you wait.

Answer 8

Ayita, not at my campus. All us brothers at Miami who attend colleges date and will always date the sistas. Especially the dark skinned ones :)

Answer 9

Because the media, ans just society period makes people think that only white girls are "it". I'm black and portugese and I am d**n s**y!

Answer 10

Oh boy, does seetheworld have an axe to grind! I had to laugh when he mentioned black women and their "degrees and goals in life", as if it's a bad thing. We're damned if we do, damned if we don't. Anyhow... on my campus, you never see black men going after black women either. I'm sure it's not entirely true, but it SEEMS as if 100% of them go for white women. I really don't care, though. If (insert demographic here) is not willing to date you, someone is. I'm not picky about when it comes to race, etc.... so if I'm having a hard time finding a black man as a partner, it's nothing to me to move on and scoop up a white guy.  

Answer 11

dear ayita

why is it i always seem to come across you and your pathetic black women ilk mentioning black men associating with white women?

when you responded to my question long-ago which got deleted you informed me "I'm not after a black man, i wanted a good man regardless of race and anyway i'm with a latino." - why are you interested in them if you're with a latino? why do you care so much? oh lemme guess. i assume things didn't go so well. well thats a shame...

now, the major reason why black men dislike you in particular is because you think you know god d**n everything. they're probably sick of hearing about your degrees and "goals in life". or maybe they're sick of being disrespected, shamed and rejected by black women. of course, why would they waste their opportunity to get their self esteem lowered.

personally i think you should focus more in college so that when you've earned your degrees you can brag about them. you should be asking yourself why you are so materialistic. you should stop thinking the world revolves around you and you're sitting in a gold seat. black woman, we do not go to college to please you.

i see your nappy hair is not braided anymore. maybe i'm assuming to much. but good luck with your perms and college.

i preferred the braided look but that's just me.

i am gone.

Answer 12

Hey, that's because some black men prefer white women. So, you shouldn't really care, because one day you might go out with a white, hispanic or whatever and someone think the same about you. But, get that education girl, you have an oppurtunity and focus on your studies.

Answer 13

i suggest you worry more about what you do over what they do since your actions are the only ones you have any control over

Answer 14

Don't worry about boys. Get your education. Men are intimidated by your presence. I have a niece that was a beauty queen at the University of Maryland and was never hit on either while in College.  She was studying to be a doctor and was a dancer and had other things to fulfill herself. She is in graduate school now and has a good boyfriend and a good job.