Why is the guy always older than the girl he's dating?

Question

how come they are never the same age or the guy is younger it's always the guy that's older

Answer 1

Thats just how its suppose to be, with a bit more age comes a bit more experience. Thats what i think at least. People can say they want them the same age, i just want a younger and smaller woman then me. So theres a reason i have muscle.

Answer 2

cause the older guys are hot!

Answer 3

I don't know-- it depends on the women; to tell you the truth I don't take care of the age- you know, you cannot always judge if a women is older or younger than you.

Honesly if I have to choose I prefer them younger!

Answer 4

A lot of women including myself aren't interested in dating younger men, that's something typically done when you're older. Also, girls like older men because, they're supposed to be more mature. Guys date younger girls cause they're easier to get.

Answer 5

when i was 19 i had a 33 year old woman and then i got 23  year old and now im 26 with 32 year old ijust love older women there are so mature sweet and they now how to make love

Answer 6

personally i like younger girs more, but if someone 5 yrs older than me came along and it ws meant to be then whatever!

Answer 7

sometimes the woman is older, there is no dating or relationship protocol on age, unless the person is underage.  

Answer 8

Because girls mature more quicker than guys do. And if you notice it's usually like that when the girl is a teenager, or just in her early 20's. Girls like to have serious relationships and guys their age at that young age don't. They want to have fun ad ejoy their life but girls like mature guys so they prefer someone older, who's passed the ''different girlfriend every 2 weeks'' stage.

Answer 9

A guy always must be older than the girl this is my opinion bcoz some feelings are in their mind. At this situation the girl shaying and the boy looking her like lovely & i cant tell u every feelings of my heart bcoz this is the heart feeling u can better understand.

Answer 10

I'm a guy and its the complete opposite for me. My ex was 22 and I'm 19.

For guys dating younger girls I think its just because sometimes its easier for them to get in their pants.  

Answer 11

Thats not always true. Lots of guys  are dating females older than them. Certainly not the majority by any stretch of the imagination but there has always been that 17% of males or so who date someone older than them.

It's when the wedding rings come out that males tend to go downward and females upwards (or when searching for a life time soulmate)..

I think the reason is simple and obvious. Males become better "father material" as they age. Who really wants a 19 year old father for their children?????!!!!??????

Older guys are Better providers for children and That is why females generally marry upwards. Females arent just choosing a mate for oneself but also a father for children. Older is MUCH better in that regard.

Males mostly marry females younger than them because of the fertility issue and the desire to have 2 -7 kids.

Those are the real facts as I see it.  I don't believe the other way around will ever be as common as the "norm" unless older women become more fertile as a group and younger guys start off  their careers making $90k a year.  

Answer 12

Its not always, by nana was 20 years older than her husband. And I suppose that men are usually older because they have learnt more in their life, so they teach it to the girl? lols

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Answer 13

their not.....my mum's new husband is 7 years younger than her.

but i hate younger guys- anyone who dates them tends to be called a cradle snatcher

Answer 14

same age here  both 16 :)

dunno really if i date someone younger than me she'l be 15 and going on 16 so i try to stick generaly with the same age

suppose it's just one of them things :)