Why is this family able to talk and do without punity?

Question

This was my aunt(marriage only-no blood relation). She had

2 illegitimate children before she got married. She told people she came from a good family and wrapped her husband under her thumb.

She caused a lot of trouble for her in-laws and brother in laws and sister in laws.

In the 1970's, she got boob jobs that failed and she came out with molded b*****s. Her third child got a PHD and her fourth child became a CPA. Her 2 grandsons became doctors.

She didn't like her niece who lived with the boyfriend because the niece was giving her private away for free. She didn't like my mom for

fighting back. She set up us to get physically beaten up as kids.

She said we would grow up to be no good.

Her husband brags about his rolex watches.

Why is her family being treated like royalty?

Why is her family able to talk and do what they want without any punishment?

Was she evil or just crazy?

My family hasn't spoken to her family for 30 years.

Answer 1

Is this really a question or are you just venting?  We don't know your family, so how would we know?  Some people are just bad.  If you haven't spoken to her or her family for 30 years, how do you know she hasn't had any punishment?  How do you know she's being treated like royalty?  Why are you so interested in her life anyway?  Why are you addressing this in a public forum?  I'm sure there's a lot more to the story, but I just don't see your point.

Answer 2

Welcome to the real world of dysfunctional families.  This is a true American family in the flesh.  She sounds like a miserable soul who has nothing to do but to meddle in others business and "try" to drag others down to her level.  The best thing is that she has gotten a dose of her own medicine in the case that your family has not spoken to her in 30 years.  She is who she is and will probably continue to be who she is.  She may have some mental instability or not, who is to say.  But if her own family cuts her off you would think that she at least would make an attempt to try to change and make reconciliation.  She sounds shallow and very unhappy.  You should be glad she isn't in your life.  Pray for her, be the bigger person and pray that she is able to see that she is not "living" in the real world.

Peace & Love  :)