Why is this so hard ?!?!?!??

Question

okay well i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for like 3 wks

and before we use to talk alot on the phone and text and now school started and we dont have any classes together and i only see him in the mouring and like twice between classes and it sucks and he has a best friend and they've been bff's since like 7th grade and ther're always together he talks to her more than me!!!

and im trying to nice as possible so it doesnt seem like im trying to ruin there friend ship but idk what to do and when i call he doesnt answer his phone i idk if i should put up with this or just let him go

the thing is i dont wanna regret losing him so plz help

Answer 1

this is the type of conversation that you get in to at a slow pace and with extreme caution...you might want to figure out what your going to say before you say it and remind yourself to keep a cool head so you don't say anything you will regret.  but be direct with him and straight to the point...that your feeling a little left out and don't want to seem needy but would like some more quality time.

Answer 2

if you really dont wanna lose him, YOU have to make it work. plan outings for you guys, or do your best to see him between classes and passing periods.