Why life is so unfair??

Question

my family are poor. i have disgusting house and i embarrasses to have my friend over. my crush came over last week and called my house pig hole. it really hurt my feelings. i'd love to have a rich life. i hate my life.

Answer 1

Life can just feel that way, but for now you just have to accept how things are and study hard for the future. Starting like this can be difficult but it should just drive you to study and work harder than the people who have it better. Usually people that have it easier growing up have it harder when they get older. They're used to get everything they want and are not used to acutally working for what they need and become dependent on mommy and daddy.

Just love your family for what it is now and work hard for what you want. Thats all I have to say about that.

Answer 2

work hard and pray

Answer 3

If your house is really that trashed (and I've seen some bad ones), there's nothing you can really do except work on yourself.

1) Study hard so you can have a better life.

2) Meet up with people in public so they don't have to see your house. Explain that your house is really messy and you prefer to spend time in a clean environment.

3) Keep your personal space clean and tidy so if you do have friends come over, they'll be comfortable in your space. If you don't have cleaning supplies, a hot washrag can still go a long way or ask a neighbor if you can borrow theirs. Also, learn how to do laundry and don't be afraid of asking a kind neighbor if they would mind letting you use their washer.

4) Whining about hating your life does little. Sure you're young and you don't have many choices, but always take responsibility for yourself and work hard and things will come your way.

Answer 4

i cant believe he would say something so nasty not everyone is lucky enough to have plenty of money. when i was little we used to have potatoes every night for dinner for weeks on end because we had nothing, the only good meal was my free school dinner. if you feel down about it (and i dont blame you) try to think about how you will change your life when you get older by getting a good job and stuff like that. we would all love to be rich but being comfortable in life is important. im not rich now but i have a good life because i worked hard and turned it around my kids have what they need and i have a nice house. you can do it!!!

Answer 5

yes, i see how you feel. i am not happy with my life either. but you can still effort to get rid of negative things in your life and try to have a better life. at least that is what i am trying to do.for example, firstly, i know that i have to reach economic independency, get a long lasting job then if i am lucky enough i might meet a man who can really love me, but i am quite hopeless at this, so i try to concentrate on the thigns that i can change by imrpoving my skills. i dontknow whether i will ever be succeeded but that is the only the way to breathe with a little piece of peace.  

edit :

even if your social conditions are not good, that doesnt give any person to humiliate you, your parents, your way of life or your home. you shoudlnt mind the peopel who try to make you feel down. if your friends or partners truly love you, they shoudl try to help you and support you emotionally, because it is always easy to get someone down. we cant choose our social conditions, but we can choose the people aroudn us as partners or friends.

Answer 6

what wiggle said

Answer 7

Hi,

well.. My story is sort of Rags to a decent living story(not bragging)..its just that .. it willltake time to work all the way up.. remeber something.. we can be born poor.. but if you die poor..its your fault .. so think of smart and ethical ways to make money. in that you supplement your family and you will also have something to spend.. you would become confident and independent the,, but remember something.. if somebody loves you truly .. it doesnt matter to them ..whether you are rich or poor.. they will care for you anytime and anywhere ...and if he calls you names just because you are poor..he dosent deserve your love

cheers

Answer 8

just wait, study hard at school, get a lot of diplomas, then find a wonderful job and u can earn a lot of money and boast around. but for the moment, u have to accept ur family and where u come from. usually its that type of life that leads people to succeed.