Why me????

Question

I have known this certain man ever since I was 8 years old. I am now a 19 year old young woman. Well...I see this man every Wednesday and Sunday and I always catch him looking at me. When he notices that I catch him looking at me, he continues to look at me without turning away until I look away. He has done this for some years.He looks at me with intensity in his eyes which causes my temperature to rise and I melt. It has always been me that he has his eye on. Anyway, I had my hair highlighted and he noticed and told me that he liked my hightlights! I was flattered! When I walked through the door, he just watched me as I walked in. I wrote him a very sentimental letter and he said that the letter was very sweet and it touched his heart!!!! I have a serious crush on him. I think about him constantly. Out of all of the people what could be the reason for his actions? What do his actions indicate?

Answer 1

he probably does  this because he is thinking things that arent appropriate in society, you should just move on and forget about him because hes nothing but trouble!

Answer 2

He is just trolling, being a typical man.  I'd concentrate on what your actions indicate and to me, they indicate that you want to be involved.  I'd take a good look at his background before I allowed myself to do that because he is quite a bit older than you.

Answer 3

I must be hard to be such a desirable princess.

Answer 4

Girl, he likes you back. If he is always looking at you he thinks your pretty, when he compliments you  its because he loves everything about you. If  you have a crush on him and he likes you you should definitely go out with him if he really just thinks your hot and doesn't want to go out with you, just try to forget him, but odds are he has a major crush on you, which is a good thing for both of you.

Answer 5

lol wrong category, this has nothing to do with "anthropology"

but anyways to answer your question, because he finds you extremely attractive. HIT IT OFF NOW! WOHOO congrats

Answer 6

He is completely head-over-heels in love with you!!!! duh!

Answer 7

he probably likes you, but I wouldn't like some guy staring at me all the time...creepy

Answer 8

If he's a man (as in significantly older than you) and he's been eying you since you were 8 years old. He must be pretty messed up, and probably just wants to bang you.

Answer 9

... How old is this man.

Im guessing you have connections to him or something, otherwise it would be weird to bump in to the same guy every wednesday and sunday.

If hes a priest, then just give up. They arent interested in what you have to offer (no offense but priests are just acting nice to you and not "into" you).

Answer 10

because he LIKES u

Answer 11

because i don't know y

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Answer 12

he sounds creepy i agree, and why hasent he tried asking you out by now? Kinda wierd!

Answer 13

well it's obvious. he wants you. but this guy sounds sort of on the creepy-side...

Answer 14

creeepy

Answer 15

of course he likes u...it's kind of obvious. ask him out,he's going to say yes. if he stares at you, and gives you compliments, of course he likes u.

zoe

Answer 16

Now that you are 19 it will not be illegal for him to show you what his intentions are.

Answer 17

He sounds a little weird, or possibly lonely. Depending on how old he is, build a relatioship with him, as friends first. If he is much older than you, by like 20-30 years, I definitely would think twice about a serious relationship. If he does happen to be much older, you could flatter him by going on a few "dates", giving him some company. Maybe he's just lonely. But if he's had his eye on you since you were 8, I would be skeptical... But, why you? Because he sees you as a person he could connect with.

Answer 18

Seriously? have you read what you wrote? its obviously 1 of two things, he wants to cut you into little pieces or marry you, id say its the second one! i take it hes your age and not some really old guy! anyway, if your single and he's single i don't see why he hasn't asked you out, especially with the whole letter thing,  get his number or give him yours then text, trust me as a fellow male, if he wants you, you'll know all about it.

Answer 19

You also didn't mention how old this man is and how long he's been looking at you "this way."  He sounds like a creep.  He's married, too.  I think you should steer clear of him, if for no other reason than the fact that he is married.

Answer 20

just because it can be u

Answer 21

just because....

Answer 22

He sounds weird if you ask me. I think it's rude to stare at someone until they turn away. By writing him your only giving him a invitation to ask you out. You may have a crush on him but I'm sure he has other things on his mind. Watch yourself.

Answer 23

He`s creepy.