Why men think that relationship is all about s*x and not marriage ?

Question

at least all the men that I know

Answer 1

Men think about s*x 24/7 and that is what men do.  I don't think my husband bases our marriage on s*x though.  I think he loves other aspects about me as well.  Yes s*x is important to him big time but our marriage isn't all about s*x.

Answer 2

Every creature is seeking to procreate. Women have a bigger time investement with it - pregnancy and all. So women are looking for a stable guy. Men are left with two options - one is to become that stable guy, and the other is to have s*x with as many women as possible hoping that some will get pregnant. Don't take me wrong, they are not doing it conciously, that is, they are not trying to make their partners pregnant.  

Answer 3

You need to meet some other men!

Stop dating boys.

Answer 4

cause women change after they get married. and men do not  like that change

Answer 5

It's not like that. You're dating an IMMATURE person, who is not ready for marriage.

Answer 6

That is a huge generalization, depends on the age group, that could be for younger men, some older men see it differently. It all depends on personalities involved, If they are too the same, some of chemistry will probably wear off quicker after the intial hookup phase, whereas if it was not quite the same personalities, that could be interesting with a lot of drama and smarty pants games. But then again, there is the old saying: You hurt the one you love the most, which could be a drawn out saga that only most people would want to read in a romance novel and not actually experience in real life.

Answer 7

You need to look a little deeper before you rush into a relationship again. Not all men are that way, those who do are little boys and not men at all. I swear it's like we're living in an era of kids. None takes the time to get to know each other before the jump into the sack, it's disgraceful what American society has become.

Answer 8

Apparently (I'm assuming)you're basing that on experience with younger men. Most mature men aren't that way and know what the important things in a relationship are. It comes from being raised with chauvinistic role models or peers with the same mentality in most cases. Just as most men are brought up to believe that women don't know what they want or can't be upfront with you about what they mean when they talk to you. I've learned long ago to read between the lines. It's a proven scientific fact that men and women don't use the same side of the brain when we think. Most men use more of the analytical side and most women use the emotional side so naturally we will view things differently. What may seem to be a harmless flirt by you appears to us to be a green light to something more. Compare it to us speaking an entirely different language than you do and trying to carry on a conversation. Maturity by both men and women bridges that gap(and lack of understanding) in years of experience of life. Until then, please keep in mind that we are not all the same and there are exceptions to that mentality out there even in younger(and wiser men).

Answer 9

because you are a ******* s**t.wanna come over for a good time?

Answer 10

Because that's were some men's BRAINS ARE - not in the right heads like ours! LOL

Answer 11

Because when you give them all the s*x they want in a relationship, why should they think about marriage. Besides, relationships based on s*x, never last.

Answer 12

they are stupid

Answer 13

Hmmm cmon guys lets sit around and think about marriage all day.

Say does anyone know where some cool marriage websites are?

Wow let me tell you how great my marriage is going?

Isnt life just really all about marriage?

Lets hear it for marriage!

Man theres just something about being married, ahhh.

Marriage is the bomb!

Answer 14

go for the uglier ones.